[MIREYA]

Let me tell you guys more about me..
I been with the same guy since I was 15 yrs old. Until now that I'm 24.
Our relation is very bad. I been going out almost every Friday with some friends from H.S and I met this guy that works in a club, he ask me for my # and we are been talking almost every day.. I really like him a lot, but the only thing is that he's seen other girls, he told me straight up since the beginning and I also told him that I'm married..
One time I went to his apartment and I almost had sex with him, but nothing happen..
I'm really scared to be with someone else after all this years been with only one guy??
Any advised?? :confused:

[TRISTE ET SEUL]

Yes I Am Going To Be The First One To Answer... I Think That This Guy Is Not Good For You, He Told You Straight Out That He Was Still Talking To Other Girls And That He Can't Take You Serious Cause Of Your Situation, You Have Already Been Talking To Him For A Month So He Know Your Situation W/ Your Baby Daddy. As A 38 Year Old W/ Past Relationships And Kids He Should Be More Understanding. No I Really Don't Think That This Is The Guy For You To Start A Relationship With. Maybe Use Him For Sex, He Looks Like He Knows What To Do And How To Do It But That It Don't Let Yourself Fall In Love. Enjoy Your Freedom. Goodluck;)

[GlindaofOz]

General rule of thumb people who work in nightclubs or bars are total players. Waiter/Waitresses, bartenders, bouncers, etc are used to having their pick of everyone in the place. They often juggle multiple dates while picking up more girls every night. They are not interested in the long term because their job allows them access to so many beautiful people every night.

I say walk on from this one but allow it to be a great confidence boost. Naturally you got "it" at 24 ;)