[Robin Mask]

All right for the past 3-4 weeks I've been crushing on this girl. She isn't like any girl I met, she is nice, smart, pretty, and has a nice body. Its hard to find a girl like that anywhere. My problem is that I'm too shy to say anything, I mean she even comes up to me and talks to me sometimes. I didn't know what to say, and I want to know her so that I can ask her to homecoming. So then recently I told her friend I liked her, she then told her without me knowing. For the past 2 weeks she has known about me liking her and I only found out today that she knew this. The funny thing is that she lays on hints, at least I think so, she is staring at me sometimes, and often comes to a group or near me. I wish I was brave enough to say something. Then today I also found out she has a boyfriend, I don't know for how long they've been going out, but I hope not too long. We are both freshman too. And I only have 1 class with her. Please help me, I don't know what to do anymore. She isn't like any other girl I met or seen, I even wrote a poem for her. I might update everyday to say what happens, thank you.

[Homegirl 50]

Well the first thing you need to do is confirm whether she has a boy friend. If she does, leave her alone. If she doesn't then ask her. What's in your mind is not going to float to the air to her, and if you can't ask her yourself, you don't need to go.
But you're what 14? The sky will not fall if you don't go to homecoming.

[LearningAsIGo]

If she does have a boyfriend, there really isn't anything you can do unless you want to wait for her.

When you know she's single, try to think of a way to approach her. You could just say something as simple as, "Hey, are you going to the next home game?" If she says yes, ask if she wants to meet you there. If she says no, tell her you thought about going but if she isn't you wouldn't have any fun. ;)

Start slow and things will happen naturally. Good luck! :)

[mwilliams15]

If she has a boyfriend, get over her, your young.. hang out with your friends and just have a good time! You don't want to spend 4 years of high school in a relationship, you miss out on a lot of living!
But if she don't, hey, go for it, but don't go into the relationship execting that it will result in marriage. Try not to obsess as much and play it cool ;)