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    Sep 25, 2007, 10:08 AM
    In love with a married man.
    To make a long story short I'm 19 and I've been in a serious relationship with a married man who is 31yrs. Old we been together for a year now and like any relationship we had are ups and downs I got pregnant. In march and I'm keeping it but lately I've been feeling so confused like I don't know whether I want to stay or go because he's just not giving me what I want don't get me wrong he's great to me and even though he got a wife and 2 kids at home he finds time for me but its not enough I'm about to have his child and I want a family with him I just don't know if he's going to leave his wife for me he say he love me but at times I feel like he don't from the beginning he told me that him and his wife don't sleep together and I believe him I just don't know what to do I need answers I know that his wife is a big help in his life and no matter what I can't erase her out the picture
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    Sep 25, 2007, 10:13 AM
    He will never leave his wife. What he is telling you is the standard Married Man Script. This is what every single married man having an affair says all across this great world. Let me guess he won't leave her because of the kids? Some sense of loyalty to her? I can also guarantee that they ARE still having sex.

    This man is selfish and will never give you what you want fully. Also you can be pretty darn sure that the only person he loves is himself. Even if he did leave his wife for you what do you think would happen? Give it a few years and he'd be out having an affair. Men like this are unhappy and take their frustrations out on their marriage.

    I'd say leave now while you can however, once your child is born you should seek child support. There is no reason for this man to get off free and easy for caring for your child.

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