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    dustndawn Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 20, 2007, 07:42 AM
    How can I get my boyfriend to last longer?
    Hi. I'm actually the girlfriend of a guy who has PE.
    When we first started having sex, he lasted about 15 minutes (which is good for the most part). Now, a year later, he seriously is like 1-3 minutes then he is finished. What makes it worse is that there is no other type of foreplay (i.e. oral sex, fondling, etc) on his end, and once he shoots, that's it.. He won't try another round! So as the disappointment grows on my end, and he is well aware of his quickness (which brings stress on his end), before it gets to where we start arguing or even worse, break up, I need to know what I can do about this.
    I don't want him to know I'm writing this website because it isn't easy to talk to him about this, as I know that a man's sexual performance is the one thing that can break him down if he learns he isn't "that good"... Please let me know of any tips or "cures" that I might be able to apply to him discreetly so that we can get our sex life back. Thanks!
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    Sep 20, 2007, 02:35 PM
    There is some freezing gel that you could buy usably at the sex store and you rub that on him and he loose a bit of sensation but he will still feel the pleasure but he will last longer because he frozen and it give him a cool feeling too... try that and let me know what happen
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    Sep 20, 2007, 02:41 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by dustndawn
    Hi. I'm actually the girlfriend of a guy who has PE.
    When we first started having sex, he lasted about 15 minutes (which is good for the most part). Now, a year later, he seriously is like 1-3 minutes then he is finished. What makes it worse is that there is no other type of foreplay (i.e. oral sex, fondling, etc) on his end, and once he shoots, that's it.. He won't try another round! So as the disappointment grows on my end, and he is well aware of his quickness (which brings stress on his end), before it gets to where we start arguing or even worse, break up, I need to know what I can do about this.
    I don't want him to know I'm writing this website because it isnt easy to talk to him about this, as I know that a man's sexual performance is the one thing that can break him down if he learns he isn't "that good"... Please let me know of any tips or "cures" that I might be able to apply to him discreetly so that we can get our sex life back. Thanks!
    First, RUN!!
    Second, seriously consider no more premarital sex.
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    Oct 17, 2007, 10:13 PM
    That have "toys" at the sex stores that look like rubber rings, they go on the base of the penis and keep the blood flow from being so strong, they help my husband for 5-10 minutes longer! Say maybe try that! And good luck!

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