[Lady J]

I been knowing this dude since January and he is a really good friend. I have always known he wanted to go out with me and seen me as more than just a friend but I told him that all we can be is friends and he's been OK with that. We talk everyday in school and its so obvious he likes me but he's not like other boys that like me and try to be pushy, he respects me. Well I kind of been starting to like him and I was talking to my friends and they say I should tell him but I'm not sure. He's almost like my best friend and I use to go to him all the time for advice and with boyfriend problems. He's been there for everything! Back in July when my exboyfriend cheated on me he made me feel better and even though I was sad he could still make me laugh. I can't stop thinking about this dude and I'm really starting to like him and for the past few days when we see each other he's been walking around with me and putting his arm around me and I been doing the same. I don't know if I should tell him or not. I really want to but if something ever happens and we break up then it will never be the same. But at the same time I know he would never do anything to hurt me. My mom even likes him and my mom is the type that don't like a lot of the boyfriends I've had. Well I kind of need some advice what I should do. I'm going to think about it tomorrow and Friday and over the weekend. But I really like him and I think about him all day and he just makes me smile whenever he comes around lol. Well yea :) I need some advice.. thanks!

[talaniman]

For now I think you should keep him as a friend and hang out and have fun. He is cool and maybe there is something there, and the best part is in finding out. Go slow and be open, but talk and listen to each other. The best relationships are BUILT on strong friendships, but it up to you BOTH. I think the main thing is, you making up your mind, as I sort of suspect he may be ready for the next level. All you can do is ask, but once you cross the line its so hard to go back. Make sure your ready, even if he is not.

[smartblondy]

Depends on how much of a best friend he is if he's a proper good friend I wouldn't waste on love but if it's like all right then go for it you already know he likes you and that's usually what stops people hope this advice works