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    Sep 19, 2007, 01:54 AM
    In love with three, maybe
    Hi you. Missed you too. Anyway, I am in love with two people and I'm not sure what these feelings I have lately for my x hubby. That confuses me. The two guys I am in love with are like this in a nutshell, rick... horny fiancée who spoils me beyond... sometimes.
    Then there is kevin all the way over in Kansas, he has my heart and I always find myself looking for him and trying to call him.. not sure how he feels though... HELP ME PLEASE!! :confused: :(
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    Sep 19, 2007, 02:18 AM
    I would suggest settling down with the one love of your life. One person can be in love with any number of people. But, if you want to be true, honest and forthright to the one you love, then your love to that person needs to be exclusive. If you continue the way that you are, then you will run the risk of losing all of those with whom you are in love.

    Hopefully, others will come along and offer their advice also.

    If you provide more information concerning the situations, that would be helpful too.
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    Sep 20, 2007, 09:48 PM
    well, the thing is that I'm, not sure which one is my true love... I have this feeling of wanting to settle with kevin, in Kansas. But with my life like it is with(fiance) rick, its hell and very stressful most of the time. More stress than needed... his job and habbit comes first, then he spoils me and it confuses me about how he feels... he says he is in love with me. Kevin on the other hand, he has my heart also and I find myself ALWAYS thinking of him and I can't get to him... HE IS PATIENTLY WAITING FOR ME... getting tough for him. Then lastley, there is my x hubby... he has my kids and I feel like I want to go back to him. I live in columbus Ohio, rick with me obviosley, kevin in Kansas and marty(xhubby) in Georgia. MORE HELP??
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    Sep 20, 2007, 09:56 PM
    rick isn't the guy you want if his job and habbit comes first that's not right he sound controlling or something.
    kevin lives in Kansas do you want to leave your kids behind for something that may not even be right or won't work out?
    your best bet would be to go back to your x husband and kids if that's what you both truly want.
    hope I helped
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    Sep 20, 2007, 11:31 PM
    well, I guess I forgot to mention that marty, x hubby, has a live in girlfriend, she is really young and he is happy for the most part, I think if I want to come back, he may not take me back. As far as the babies, they are happy, healthy and well taken care of we are in major phone contact and mail contact. They are in ga with daddy... so if I go to Kansas, its not that much farther away from ga than Ohio, just different directions. You are helping, keep them coming though... still not sure of what to do and its needs to be a lifelong decision. Careful is the key, this situation, people are going to get hurt. That's not how I work if you know what I mean> thanks for being here
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    Sep 20, 2007, 11:33 PM
    This kevin guy have you ever met him
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    Sep 21, 2007, 04:38 PM
    Not in person, but he wants me to come there as bad as I want to go. Its just I haven't been able to get there. I have no car and ptsd causes me to not be able to travel by plane, train, or bus.
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    Sep 22, 2007, 01:39 AM
    Hi I strongly agree with clough...

    Ms. Redrose
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