[simplicity88]

Can anyone answer that question?

I have met this guy, I thought I really liked him from what I knew. But as we have been dating and getting to know each other I'm getting really mixed signals.

Because of the person I am I'm looking for a nice guy, who is fairly shy (like me) but who will treat me well and is not sex obbsessed as I have never been in a relationship let alone had sex! (im 18)

This guy seemed perfect, good looking, great job, really friendly, appears to be liked by everyone etc etc.

He made me feel so special by sending me texts saying how beautiful I am, and how I'm perfect for him.

He said we were to take things slowly, go on a few dates and see how things go (which sounded perfect to me)

But then I'm totally getting mixed signals, as he sent me a text saying he has a high sex drive. And he has also sent me a few pictures of himself. To me this is not taking it slowly. I'm left confused as I don't know what to do, I feel completely embarrassed to confront him as I'm scared he may turn round and humilate me in front of other people. But maybe I'm just being paranoid?

I have also heard that between him and his mates they like having pictures on their phone. My friends say this is a WELL KNOWN thing for lads to do and that even the quietest and guy that you would least expect you for sex may look at porn like photo's on their phones.

The reason I'm highly confused is because he is so good looking (and although he says I am) I think I'm average, there are many prettier girls out there he could have. He knows how shy and how inexperienced I am, yet he still seems eager. This suggests to me that maybe he is not just after sex and stuff but how can I find out?

Does this guy sound like a player, or a sex addict? Please let me know!

I can't decide whether he would be a guy you could trust. Yet he come across as being such a nice lad!

[Chery]

Honey.. if you have not been on a date with him yet.. be very careful. Make sure the first date is at noon and in a very,very public place.

Your antenna is up for a reason, and cautioning you. So, unless your 'gut feelings' have let you down before, keep alert.

More times than not, when guys send you revealing pictures, they have intentions to either shock you or lure you.. it's a test.

Stay with us to find out what some of our guys think of this before you go further.

[Chery]

Honey.. if you have not been on a date with him yet.. be very careful. Make sure the first date is at noon and in a very,very public place.

Your antenna is up for a reason, and cautioning you. So, unless your 'gut feelings' have let you down before, keep alert.

More times than not, when guys send you revealing pictures, they have intentions to either shock you or lure you.. it's a test.

Stay with us to find out what some of our guys think of this before you go futher.





thats better

Hey Copycat! Next time, come up with something on your own!

[firmbeliever]

Ladiesman
Try using the "Rate Answer",but if you disagree use "Quote User" given under each post.

The disagree button should only be used if the facts are given wrong, otherwise it is better to use "Quote user" to disagree.

[Chery]

it means i vote for what you said

That's OK, I thought as much but was not sure.

You'll get the hang of it, no stress.

Next time, when you agree, click on the orange 'rate' button in the post and wait till it gives you another screen in which you place your comment.

C.U. on the forum.

[gallivant_fellow]

"We're perfect for eachother, you're so beautiful", and all that other crap before he even got to know you means that he is trying to romance you into having sex with him. Players or guys who want to have sex with women they don't know live by this trick. Trust me, almost every party I have ever been to, some piece of crap romances a girl half to death with lies, she believes them all, then they have sex. The girl is then dropped like she's hot, and the guy tells all the guy friends how he put the moves on her. The only way the girl stays is if she gives consistent sex.

This guy needs some practice though, he should have played that romance thing up a little more. That, or maybe he should be honest. Watch out for the guy who is so romantic and always understands. I've written in another post something like probably the only way to tell if a guy really loves you is to hold out on him. If he stays with you even with no sex, he probably does love you, or at least like you a lot. Be smart girls.