
Originally Posted by
cal823
i dont think love conforms to anything like that, theres one person who you are meant to love, and sometimes you will fall in love with others, but theres a single peson who is perfect for you.
if they dont love you, you shouldnt try and force it on them, coz it prob means they arent rite for you.
To say "stop trying to force someone to love you" is being a hypocrite... if you are really really really really that concerned about "manipulating" or "forcing" someone to love you then maybe you should do the following... stop trying to take two hours plus to look your best for that person... that means stop fixing your hair and putting on make up on... stop dressing up in high heels and a mini skirt and your best perfume every time you are going to see that person... stop flirting with the person and most importantly stop getting your hair and nails done once a week...
Whether you use magic or not you are still manipulating the natural order of things to try to get the person to notice you whether you like it or not... every single day and every single time you see the person... sorry but it's true... before you tell a person to "work on their ethics" or "study up" I say PRACTICE WHAT YOU PREACH!! WHETHER YOU USE MAGIC OR NOT YOU ARE STILL MANIPULATING THE NATURAL ORDER OF THINGS TO TRY TO ATTRACT A PERSON TO YOU!!
Now as far as using a love spell make sure you study up on things... they are not supposed to be used as an easy way out... they are not harmful or manipulative... movies and TV shows have only made love spells look forceful manipulative and controlling... and that we are turning them into our love slaves etc... that's not true... love spells can help a situation and bring peace to it when needed... but they are not hocus pocus fun and games they are to be taken seriously as with ANY spell...
So with any magic you should always be careful with what you wish for... and only use spells when truly needed... not willy nilly messing around...
This is why I decided wicca is not the right path for me...