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yamiarya · Sep 4, 2007, 09:57 PM

How do I get my man to treat me better? Sometimes he embarresses me in front of other people and picks on me. :(

It's OK when he talks to me badly or when he's having a bad day but if I do the same-it's chaos!

nauticalstar420 · Sep 4, 2007, 10:00 PM

He should never pick on you or put you down in front of other people. You absolutely should not allow this. You need to have a serious talk with him and tell him that this hurts you. If he loves you, he would not want to hurt you.

yamiarya · Sep 4, 2007, 10:15 PM

I agree but how do I approach him without starting a fight? He seems to get angry every time I have an issue- I've done everything for this guy, my parents even threatened to kick me out because of him and they stopped talking to me because of him. It doesn't mean anything to him that I have gone through so much just to be with him

nauticalstar420 · Sep 4, 2007, 10:16 PM

Wow, that should mean a lot to him. He sounds like a heartless person for not recognizing what you have given up for him.

Approach him calmly. Make sure you know what you want to say, and make him listen, even if he doesn't like it. Don't yell or raise your voice, just talk very nicely. The nicer you are, the more likely it is that he will respond.

Skell · Sep 4, 2007, 10:23 PM

Leave him. That will do the trick!

He doesn't sound like he is worth it to me. You can do better!

statictable · Sep 4, 2007, 11:37 PM

"It's ok when he talks to me badly"

Sounds as if you opened the door to his verbal crap and now, how to close that door. Have dinner with him in a crowded restaurant and be very direct in telling him to "learn how to speak with you like a man" and "not as a gutless bully." If he can't learn to care for you then he'll have to find another woman to drag down to his level. And don't be defensive when he comes back at you. Just say "stop." Best wishes.

a1b2 · Sep 5, 2007, 03:29 AM

I think d guy doesn't values u as much as u value him.stop making excuses for him because he`s nt worth it .know this will sound harsh & bitter bt the truth is bitter.love brings respect .for him nt to respect your feelings in public means he doesn't love u.its obvious he`s just taking advantage of the way u feel about him which he doesn't deserve.I have bin in a similar situiation and I thot I was at fault took a lot of wasted years to realise he didn't deserve me u won't get it now until u realise it yourself. I'm free now,and it regret all d wasted time.