[Annie23]

Hey I got a problem I'm still a virgin because in my case the hymen got to be attached
For my "wedding day" some family rule and I got abused when I was a kid it was
Just touching I think,but 2 years ago I started to be obsessed by washing my
vigina and keeping it clean I wash it like every 5 or 10 minutes. Once I saw a small piece of blood tiny one that's
Like after when I'm done from my period is that because of the hymen it torn or its period blood?
And now I noticed that my inner lips are like fliped inside out why is that? Its kind of freaking me out

[Marzapan741]

Your hymen doesn't just tear from sex. It can rpe on its on just by bike riding, riding horses, or any other normal activity.
If you play sports most likely it poped and you don't know it.
There are other ways for it to pop on its own.
So you can stop cleanign yourself every 10 minutes :P

If you are that concerned I guess go see a gynecologist

[Marzapan741]

Oh and everyone's vagina look differently so there's really no way to tell if that's a weird thing lol.

[Annie23]

Lol it's that its just the cleaning obsession is driving me insane and my vigina doesn't look the same anymore and I don't sports of any activity?

[danielnoahsmommy]

It's puberty, you also seem to have an ocd. If it continues I would suggest talking to your paerent or your doctor. Losing ones virginity or washing constantly does not change what your vagina looks like.

[LearningAsIGo]

Washing too much or not correctly can actually do harm. It's a relatively sensitive area so "scrubbing" should never take place. Rather, gentle with a mild soap. Its possible that if you are too rough you could cause swelling, irritation, redness, etc.

As far as the appearance, everyone does look different. I'm sure you have nothing to worry about, but you might want to consider addressing your concerns with a GYN.

[tlc31]

It sounds like you may have OCD, obsessive compulsive disorder, you may need to talk with a therapist they can help.