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    Aug 27, 2007, 05:53 PM
    Boyfriends going to college
    OK so my boyfriends going to college.. his staying home and lives up the block from me. However I'm only going to be a senior we've been dating almost a year now and we see each other often we both work and we don't feel the need to see each other everyday he goes away with his family and sometimes I go he assures me I have nothing to worry about. But for some reason my mind keeps wondering to what ifs about 2 years ago my ex boyfriend had moved away when we were dating for almost 2 years so we stayd together and a week after he came h ome to visit me he ended up cheating on me with another girl who he's still with ever since then I've had kind of trust issues I know my current boyfriend wouldn't cheat on me he's very upfront and always says it how it is. He even told me hed take me to the parties with him and he talks about me often with his family and friends because he's constantly telling me they've heard of my family or know my dad. He also told me about a month ago that he was pretty sure I'm going to be the girl he marries and he talks about finishing school getting everything settled in and buying a house. He always kids when he sees old people together that that's us in 70 years and that every relationship had bumps in the road and if we ever hit one big enough to breakup over that wed always end up getting back together.. we've never broken up though were very close and I trust him but I keep worrying about him being at college with new people. He's not exzactly a very social person but he is? I don't know its weird like at family parties he's kind of on the shy side[my family] and he HATES crouded places. Like the beach but he plays sports which is where he makes all his friends from . I don't know what I'm so worried about I just don't want to lose something I've waited so long to have.[2 years] that's so great and everything I could want. How do I not let this effect our relationship negatively I want to be like the unforgettable un replacable girlfriend I mean who doesn't. I already make him cookies while he's at work and dinner sometimes. He told me I have nothing to worry about expeshally cause no one could be like me with my "looks" and my "terrible singing" and without that combination I have nothing to freak out over he gets out of school earlyier in the day and I have a few periods off throughout my schedule so we agreed to meet durrin gthe day for lunch or something but it still bothers me. What do I do
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    Aug 27, 2007, 06:01 PM
    Relax and stop worrying! I know it seems trite. But who knows what's going to happen. Tomorrow it could rain ice cream from the sky, who knows.

    Just trust and love your boyfriend and understand college is crazy and he will be busy. Him being busy will not mean he loves you any less its just college is overwhelming especially the first semester. I would not give him a hard time if he can't see you due to demands from college. Stay busy with your friends and enjoy your senior year.
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    Aug 27, 2007, 07:20 PM
    Thanksss
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    Aug 28, 2007, 06:51 AM
    Does anyone else have anything to sayy?

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