[jojo114]

My ex and I broke up 2 months and a half ago but I don't know why I still think of him its like all the time he's my number 1 subject on the phone with my friends and I still don't understand why I still feel like this. We left each other for no reason we said its over we made that very clear but I'm still thinking of him morning and night. We don't talk at all anymore cause he thinks I've moved on I I think he has too. I think about this everyday the worst is he doesn't know, I stricly don't want to bother him with this. What should I do? Any advice. p.s I'm going to see him on Thursday cause its back to school I'm really nervouse!

[Jiser]

If you want this to work? Try to understand what went wrong if at all? Learn from the mistakes or you will go back to square one! Communication is the best option. So why not speak to him and tell him how you feel. Probably best alone.

[SPenyweit]

Relax. Take a deep breath. Be Honest with your feelings. Answer this question first... Why did you end the relationship, no reason, never really means NO REASON? There was a reason you may not be aware of it, and that could be the problem, you think that you just walked away, but in all honesty... HE WALKED AWAY.

1. I think you should try to answer this question for yourself. 2. Ask him to explain his version of what happened? 3. Be ready to let him know that you still like him, and ask point blank... "Are you interested in giving it another try?"

Be prepared for a NO answer, but if its yes you got what you wanted, if its No, then you have closure, will be hurt, but will know in what direction to go next.

Good Luck. I believe in being direct, but if you play games then you will get gamed.:cool: