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    Aug 18, 2007, 01:44 PM
    Hi

    Yeah I would like 2 no ow 2 get my boyfriend back?
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    Aug 18, 2007, 02:29 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by charlee needs advice
    yeh i wud like 2 no ow 2 get my boyfriend back?
    Please explain how you lost him. That would help for people to answer your question better.

    Also, it would help if you would use correct spelling and grammar on this site since it is used by many people from around to world whose primary language may not be English and so they might not know what you are saying unless you use proper spelling and grammar. Thank you.
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    Aug 18, 2007, 02:33 PM
    Also, please post your answer under my response here please, rather than starting a whole new thread. Thank you.
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    Aug 18, 2007, 02:40 PM
    OK sorry I didn't know how to do it! Erm I lost him well he said that I was to clingy, and I only saw him at weekends! Also I was jealous to begin with because he was always going out with his mates and I had to stay at home because I wanted to be out and I didn't have no money so I couldn't go out! But now I have a new job and I'm out with my mates and I just want to know if you could advice me on how to get him back!
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    Aug 18, 2007, 02:55 PM
    How old are you and how old is he, please? By knowing that, it helps to answer your question. If he was wanting to spend more time with his mates, then his age could be a factor. Don't really know though.

    The first thing to do would be to communicate with him and see how he feels about things and also tell him how you feel. You mentioned that he said that he thought that you were clingy. I don't know what he means by "clingy." But, you do admit to being jealous. Being jealous can cause people to act in ways so that others might not want to be around them.

    If money has been a problem, perhaps that is not such an issue now that you have a job. But, I would think that anywhere there would be plenty of things to do that don't cost any money, such as recreational things, i.e. bicycle riding, walks, games etc. Also,concerts or plays in parks, viewing non-professional sports activities, etc. These are just some ideas for you.

    I am hopeful that others will come along to also offer their advice to you.
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