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    dealwithitandmoveon Posts: 17, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 14, 2007, 07:17 AM
    Could it be love?
    So... I'm 13 years old.I'm wondering if I could be in love? There is this guy and sometimes I fell like I love him and sometimes I feel like I'm too young to love. Could it be love?? I'll appreciate if you help me & thanks.
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    Aug 14, 2007, 07:43 AM
    Write down how you do feel about him. For example: you enjoy his company, have similar interests, feel safe, trust him, think he is attractive, etc.
    Think about how well the two of you relate to each other. For example: How well do you communicate with each other? How do you deal with conflict? Do you bring out good or bad parts of each other? Can you show different sides of yourself?
    Ask yourself if you see and accept him as a whole person. Love isn't just loving the parts of him you like, but choosing to love him overall.
    You may think you are in love and he is perfect for you. It often takes more time to tell if you are truly compatible and whether you can really love the whole person, good and bad.
    Read books on the subject of love. Wise people have been writing about it for hundreds of years. In the bookstore, look under psychology, spirituality or philosophy. Good luck honey.:)
    You are still young,so school always come first! Remember that!!
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    Aug 18, 2007, 05:18 AM
    I talked to him only about 4 times.I trust him and of course find him attractive.yes I do accept him as a whole person.
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    Aug 18, 2007, 05:39 AM
    If you can be sure its love.. its love. You don't have to be a certain age to love despite what anyone tells you.. im also 13 I fell in love with my girlfriend and today its been 6 months we've been dating. Don't let anyone tell you you can't be in love because in the end it'll get to your head. If you think you love him.. and you're sure... I support you and I'm sure everyone else does..

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