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    Aug 10, 2007, 12:40 AM
    Should I try to move on?or is there hope
    OK... honestly id rather talk one on one but at least I'm getting this off my chest... we never actually dated but were always together, she is the love of my life, if dated other girls but its like... theres just somethig that's not there, that she put there... recently I went away... I knew it bothered her so I told her I would stay for her, after considering it she said she didn't want me to throw my life away (in this one horse town) for her, although in retrospect me leaqving is what ruined me... when I came home I called her and she said she doesent know me like she used to and its just not the same... something I left out,. she always had boyfriends but again... was always with me and always came to me AND this is what makes me believe with a thread of hope she said quote "I think im messing up by letting you go" and when I called her she said she really thinks the guy she is dating now is the one, and doesent want to do him the way she done the others... PLEASE A LITTLE HELP AND INSPIRATION??
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    Aug 10, 2007, 05:36 AM
    Sorry but I think its time to step aside and let her live her own life.
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    Aug 10, 2007, 06:41 AM
    I agree with talaniman. I think it's just time you move on. It sounds like she has, so you should do the same. It may be hard at first but over time things will just work out for the better!
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    Aug 10, 2007, 07:05 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Reiny
    OK....honestly id rather talk one on one but atleast im getting this off of my chest.....we never actually dated but were always together, she is the love of my life, if dated other girls but its like...theres just somethig thats not there, that she put there....recently i went away....i knew it bothered her so i told her i would stay for her, after considering it she said she didnt want me to throw my life away (in this one horse town) for her, although in retrospect me leaqving is what ruined me....when i came home i called her and she said she doesent know me like she used to and its just not the same.....something i left out,...she always had boyfriends but again...was always with me and always came to me AND this is what makes me believe with a thread of hope she said quote "I think im messing up by letting you go" and when i called her she said she really thinks the guy she is dating now is the one, and doesent want to do him the way she done the others...PLEASE A LITTLE HELP AND INSPIRATION????
    What is this? Since when do we have mind reading internet capabilities? Sorry, but I need more to work on...

    What type of intimacy did you two have? How long were you together and how long were you away? Did she ever make a commitment to you? What exactly did you expect when you got back and are you sure her 'dating' others never bothered you?

    And, yes, age does make a difference here, so please reveal to us how old you are.. Young relationships differ from older (sometimes not wiser) ones.

    Get back with us and we will help as best we can.


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