[justbe]

I just lost my virginity the other night, and I have had see since then and I am still not able to , I orgasm and I feel like I am about to hit my climax but nothing ever happens... I don't , and it makes me frustrated... is something wrong with me? What should I do? Nothing works, I can't make myself and he has tried other things and everything else to try and make it work.

[lickemlolly]

What you fail to realize that and orgasm is your climax... and if that hasn't happened then sometimes it takes some work... your new at it so give it some time... I don't know exactly what you refer to as because a woman's climax is an orgasm...

[justbe]

I guess what I mean, is I feel it coming and it gets really intense and builds but I don't "burst" or hit a "peak" or whatever you want to call it... the way I think I should, I mean everything feels great and I get all weak and shakey and I don't know how to describe it... then it gets bigger and bigger and then it just sort of, calms down and goes away slowly after awhile...

[A.J.R]

Just a suggestion, relax. If you are thinking too much about , or reaching your climax, then you are not relaxing your muscles. You need to just let the course of the action take its time and not think about reaching that peak of climax. Maybe if you start to think about how good it feels and not about when it is going to feel good, you might reach your climax a little faster. I know how you feel, I was the same way before I got this same advise and now my current sex life is wonderful. So try not to think so much about it and try to enjoy it more. :)

[Brandi Nikki]

I do that that 2... I just relax an let it come... no pun intended... lol.
If you are just stating it is harded to ... most girls be stimulation... :)

[fredg]

Hi,
I agree with "relax". Sounds like you are trying too hard. Things take time.
Give it some time, take a break from it!!
Best of luck,
fredg