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    Aug 5, 2007, 09:33 PM
    Boyfriend liking best friend
    I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now and lately things haven't been going good and I've been losing interest. Lately I found out he likes my best friend .I know this because its obvious and because he told me he liked someone else. Is it time for me to let go? Its just hard for me since we've gone through so much and we know eachothers family and stuff. If I do break up ith him, what should I say?
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    Aug 5, 2007, 09:42 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Nickyblinks
    ive been with my boyfriend for over a year now and lately things havnt been going good and ive been losing interest. lately i found out he likes my best friend .i know this because its obvious and because he told me he liked someone else. is it time for me to let go? its just hard for me since weve gone through soo much and we know eachothers family and stuff. if i do break up ith him, what should i say?
    If you know that he likes another girl then tell him it is time for you to go your separate ways.
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    Aug 5, 2007, 09:45 PM
    He told me he doesn't like her anymore but still it hurts
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    Aug 5, 2007, 09:47 PM
    No, play hard to get. 1. spiff yourself up. 2.make him feel like its his loss. 3. Tell him you also like someone else. Then give him a few days and he'l run back asking you to forgive him.

    He's under your control.
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    Aug 5, 2007, 09:49 PM
    He still wants to be with me its just the "him liking my bestfriend" part that kills me... it makes me feel digusted and like I just don't know if I really want to be with him but he's a great guy
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    Aug 5, 2007, 09:52 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Nickyblinks
    he told me he dosnt like her anymore but still it hurts
    Yes I know that it hurts I have been down the same road
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    Aug 5, 2007, 09:58 PM
    Ooh OK and what did you do
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