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    bluestargirl Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 25, 2007, 06:30 AM
    Boyfriend demands affection
    My boyfriend wants me to show him more affection? What does that mean?
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    Jul 25, 2007, 07:18 AM
    Hello.

    It could be as simple as he wants you to hold his hand more or show him with a sweet smile that you care for him. It could also mean that he is a jerk and trying to push you into giving him sex.

    Don't give him anything you don't feel right doing.

    Dennis777
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    Jul 25, 2007, 07:56 AM
    More affection usually translates in going to bed. Which is a ploy. Don't fall for it. Don't ever do something you are not comfortable with. Don't be talked into doing something you do not feel you are ready for. Never! No one is going to look after your own best interest besides you.

    Now it could be that more affection translates in more hugs, holding hands, the sweet things couples do. But you need to ask him, not wonder what he means, but ask him directly. He needs to spell it out for you, otherwise you will be confused and think you are doing something wrong or be led to do something you are not prepared for.
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    Jul 27, 2007, 12:57 PM
    I think the best thing to do is ask him exactly what he means.
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