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longshot · Jul 22, 2007, 10:44 PM

I found a woman who absolutely means the world to me. Everything that I could ever want in a woman, you know the type. But I can't keep my mind from wandering. I know that she is the perfect one to settle down with but I can't help but seeking more women. I've been successful with women in the past but have never been in anything this serious before. I love meeting new people, women in particular, and am afraid of committing entirely. What's my issue? Can I break the addiction?

sarah1989 · Jul 22, 2007, 11:54 PM

Maybe your just not ready to settledown just yet. If she was the one you'd be all for it and not even thinking of other women.

nicespringgirl · Jul 23, 2007, 07:13 AM

Appearantly, you are not ready to settle down yet.
How old are you? It has somethine to do with life experience, age doesn't mean much but it def. can be part of the issue,men are ready to settle sown until certain age. If you are like 18 yr-old, it's not surprised you think this way.

airwalk_man · Mar 4, 2008, 07:35 PM

Guy to Guy. I've explored this situation before. Nicespringgirl is right about the age, but one other thing that has changed in our society is variety in our dating partners. This might be a deeper explanation but here it goes:

We now have multiple options of communicating with women/men online primarily and I find that these routes can certainly make any single man want more because they know that options exist. I'm talking social groups and networking sites. You "literally" have the whole world in your hands when it comes to being social. This might sound like an excuse for myself, but right now I have also met the girl of my dreams, except I'm manifesting the future I will have with her rather then the future I could have with other girls, and this might not be something you can successfully do at this time. It doesn't mean it won't change for you, (it has for me) but I would agree with the fact you may not ready to settle down.

Now, I don't think its an addiction to think about other women, but if your acting on multiple sexual urges and seeking for multiple partners, then I would seek professional help because that is an addiction that will certainly effect your future relationships. This is the extreme case.

Just keep living life dude, but don't leave this girl hanging because you might loose her as a friend too. Who knows you might cross paths again when your ready.
Cheers