[hettie]

My ex boyfriend has just told me has met someone else at he week end despite during a massive arguemint last week him saying he didn't have any one else and had no interest in meeting someone. He says it wasn't planned it just happened but I am totally devastated by this news, although for the main part I had accepted the demise of our relationship I still clung on too the hpe that maybe he woud see s ense and get this butt back to me. He was still running me places and doing some stuff for me, only if I conntacted him mind he never volunteered unless you count call if you need me? I just kept hoping that something was still there like when I thought he was upset I had been chatted up by some guy only last week. I actually thought he wasn't talking to me for some reason as he has just been passing in the car and waving not stopping to say hello and it turned out to be because he met this other woman, however he said he thought I wasn't talking to him as I hadn't text or called him recently something I was trying to stop because I felt it was annoying him. So I am still clinging on despite the fact he has meet someone else already we omnly split up 14 weeks ago aftert 2 years of living togther what you reckon folks any hope ? Or am I sad lonely and desperate?

[nicespringgirl]

"saying he didn't have any one else and had no interest in meeting someone."

When you heard that... U never doubted it?

Every time someone says something not logical, not practical, I doubt it.

Don't trust what people say all the time, you hurt less that way.

[SAB123]

I would be unavaliable to him. He may be doing this to string you along, in case this new girl don't work out. My ex fiancé of 5 yrs is doing almost same thing. And when I see her I think of her more. I have made myself unavaiable to her so I have not seen her in 2 weeks. And I'm starting to feel a little better. So that is what I would do. Do wait heal and move on. Don't wait if he comes back. Don't wait on a if. What if he doesn't come back. It will take you that much longer to heal. Do it NOW!

[talaniman]

Or am I sad lonely and desperate?

You will never be able to move on unless YOU stop calling him. His actions make it clear he has someone else, and you just have to accept that fact. Leave him alone, and start finding your own life and happiness, and let the past go.