[evo]

I am a mature student who has developed feelings for someone who was one of my lecturers, he is always friendly and nice to me. I think he likes me - he knows I like him, but he is remaining neutral, that is he won't say if he likes me. All the signs are there, what should I do, I won't see him for another couple of months any advice on what to do when I see him again?

[talaniman]

Do nothing as far as he is concerned, but get a life, and do more than fantasise this summer. He has remained neutral, and the rest is you making more of it than it is. He could lose his job by dating a student, and if your as mature as you say you will know that, and be able to tell the difference between fantasy, and reality.

[nicespringgirl]

NO, no, no, please not! I totally understand where you at, but it is against school policies. Wait until you graduate, please wait! You are mature, I am too, I am attracted to elder men for example-professors. But I have never kept any crush longer then couple days. JUst can't think about it any more, it's against the policies and if you really like him, u should stop it, wait until you graduate! It is too hard on him and u never know if he has a wife or not... plus, he stays neutral, which means he has strong self-control, so you should do that too.