If this boy you were going with chose to cheat on you with another girl, I would take that as a signal that he doesn't deserve you. It seems like all he wants in a relationship is physical (or maybe just having a girl as an accesory), especially if he never has the time to talk to you or express your feelings. It's really important that you communicate and see each other on a regular basis, or else you might lose touch with what you want in that relationship, and just end up holding on to something that isn't there. It sounds like he can't make up his mind who to date, and if he's going to act that way, it means that he's not serious about dating, or simply isn't ready to have a true girlfrined. It's really thoughtful of you to care about him so much, and it shows how mature you are and willing to contribute to the relationship, but he's not doing his part. This will eventually set up for hurt and regret later on, and in order to avoid that, I'd either end the thing (at least for now), or tell that it would be better to be just friends until you both have more time to spend with each other, as well as building more trust. Hope I helped!
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