[girl999]

What should I do if a girl that my boyfriend, whom I've been going out for over a year now, jolled with for a week, gossips to other girls about us . She tells them stories like she went out with him and that I stole him away from her andat she was pregnant with his child, wich is all stories.. She does this behind our backs, and when shesees my b/f she tells him that she is pregnant with another guys child and the next day she tells him that she had a miscarriage... How do you stop someone like this? And the wors of all they work together... Need some advice please!!

[Dennis777]

Hello.

Do nothing... The more you try to say they are lies the more people will listen to the lies. If he is asked he should just say she is crazy or full of B.S. but he needs to blow her off.

She is doing this for attention so the less attention he gives her about this the faster she will stop the games and move on to other games for attention.

People around her know she is an attention getter so they don't listen to her and the few that do are going to agree with her no matter what's said or done.

Good luck
Dennis777

[chuff]

I'd laugh at her. Not in a mean way because then you come off as the bad one.

But if she has to make up stories to satisify an inner need for drama in her life then other people will catch on... and after a year I would assume that they have and just dismiss her. There are people in all walks of life that tell stories that are so far fetched the only think you can do is nod you head and smile. If someone approaches you with a story from her, just look them back and ask, "and you trust her credibility?" That will answer any question right there.

The problem with comforting someone like this is that they need NEED NEED drama in there life to satisfy a void. You only help feed that need when you bring yourself into their world.

[talaniman]

Ignore her and her stories and feel sorry for someone that has nothing bette to do.