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    jendavis18 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 29, 2007, 07:38 AM
    I don't know if I'm lesbian or not
    OK well I was dating this girl whom I love very much for about 2 years and then I became pregnant from this guy whom I also love very much.. now I am living w/ him and we're engaged but I always find myself sneaking off to her.. I don't know what I am! Help:(
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    Jun 29, 2007, 09:44 AM
    You're the kind of girl that cheats.

    Lesbian or not... you're breaking your engagement vow.
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    Jun 29, 2007, 10:11 AM
    Its called Bi-Sexual, but I agree with Philly. It means "You're the kind of girl that cheats."
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    Jun 29, 2007, 10:51 AM
    It's only cheating if the guy doesn't know about it. If he is okay with it, it's not cheating. You are a bi-sexual, it's fine many people are you just need to make sure your guy is okay with it.
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    Jun 29, 2007, 11:18 AM
    "...we're engaged but i always find myself sneaking off to her..." If she is sneaking off to her, I would think its safe to say he don't know about it.
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    Jun 29, 2007, 12:38 PM
    Hello

    I have to agree with most of the others. You would be Bi if you like both.

    That's the easy part. The part that I feel needs to be dealt with is your jumping from one to the other. It wouldn't matter if it was two girls or two guys or a girl and guy. If your in a relationship then you have to honer that relationship, if you can't then get out of the relationship so your not hurting others until you mature and can be with one person.

    Good Luck
    Dennis777
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    Jun 29, 2007, 01:34 PM
    Your Bi.

    I agree with Dennis you have to be with one person.
    Or you should let your baby's daddy know about the other woman. See how he takes it. You have to make up your mind. You can't stay like that for ever. Either way, sooner or later he will find out. You might as well let him. Who knows he might like that.
    But tell him and you shouldn't cheat on anyone.

    Good Luck :) Let us know how it goes.
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    Jun 29, 2007, 01:38 PM
    In agreement with the posts here. And I also agree that you need to tell him. Cheating is not the way to start a life together. Honesty and friendship work much better. Oh and don't forget open lines of communication.
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