[shizukamelodi]

OK, I HAVE ALREADY POSTED UP THAT I AM IN LOVE ( OR THOUGHT I WAS) WITH THIS GUY THAT DOESN'T LIKE ME BACK AND ENDED UP GOING OUT WITH MY ENIMIE.


now, half a year later i find out from a friend that one of my good mates ( best mate of my x crush) has told my friend he is in love with me! I have asked him out a few months b4 as a joke but i stopped him b4 he answered.we always talk on msn every day and he helps me when i am upset, last fridayi sat outside his house talking to him trew his window til midnight.lol. :) But i dunno all his mates and even my x crush go round saying that we should be a couple and we both go red, a few months ago this thug punched him round the face and his ( thug) mates cheering the thug on and i got really mad and started yelling swear words and stuff at him, afterwards they went away and i gave him ( mate/crush?) a lil hug and he went red. i mean we tell each other secrets but i duno if i would prefer to be just his mate i dunno waht feelings i have 4 him, because i still dunno if i am in love with my old crush!

some one give me some advise. please n thankz xxx

[dolly08]

:p Sweety you helped me I'm 17 I was in your shoes once before your best bet is to go for the one who likes you and when you say the word MATEwhat do you mean by it the love for your CRUSH should be over because that was just a crush so it really shouldn't be any emotions there you just like your crush a WHOLE LOT but I don't think that its love yet but just give the other boy a chance:p

:) LET ME KNOW IF YOU AGREE OR DISAGREE:)

[shizukamelodi]

I Call Him A Mate As A Friend But I Am Scared To Put Crush Bcause Then I Feels Selfish If I Like 2 Guys And I Don't know If My Old I Don't know If I Could Call Him A Crush B Cause I Have Liked Him 4 More Than 4 Years. The Two Boys R Saying Theyboth Nlike A Girl That Is Not From The Village I Live In ( I Don't Come From The Village( And I Am Getting Confuesed.

[dolly08]

:pBut sweety the key word is LIKE if somebody told you that your mate likes you go for the mate but dont let him get those goodies (lol) cause that might be what he wants dont get me wrong i dont know Girl I have so many crushes I talk to them all on the phone and i also have a boyfriend but that doesnt keep me from crushing I LOVE MY boyfriend to death......Do you have crushes on singers if you do thats something like a crush but i can already tell that you really like the one that you've crushing on for about 4yrs thats gonna be hard to get over i had to get over a boy friend that i had for almost five years i had to start looking at him different so i could get over him quicker i had to loose all contact with him until i got over him but i still think about him sometimes til this day but i know i dont wanna go backwards because thats not the best way to go i want you to do whats best for you and how you feel if you got a strong feeling about this one then GO FOR IT!!!!! It might work you will never know until you try......:p

:) LET ME KNOW IF YOU AGREE OR DISAGREE:)