[PeterJohn]

Well, here's the thing, Im 19 years old and Ive pretty much been dating since I was about 15 and ever since I can remember every girl that I've dated I've always just let myself go to and I fall head over heal madly in love with them, and at first there always on the same wave length as me, then after a few months, I swear to god the same happens, things tend to just fall right out of place, and its not that I start treating them like crap, its like I can't really put a word to what it is, but things kind of just go down the crap shoot. I figured it was because I was dating younger girls and they didn't know what they wanted so I started dating older girls, and the girl I currently am with is a year older then me and things for the first few months where going sooo amazingly, she was the first one to say I love you, she was all over me and I'm like wholly I don't know what to do this is amazing. Then the worst thing happened, see I came back home from school because my semester finished, and my girlfriend lived in that city which is a few hrs away, and well its only for the next few months that were apart then were back together, and I noticed when I first came back from school we where all still in love and calling each other all the time. Then one day she just stopped. And its not like, it was a slow transition, it just stopped, and shed maybe call me once a day and for like literally sometimes we'd talk for 30 seconds and that would be it,like id understand if it slowly happened, but one day just bam! And its not like she doesn't say I love u,like for those whole 30 seocnds, thatsall she pretty much says. But I'm not to sure what to think, its been going on for a few weeks now, and I broughtit up to her, and she just says she's really busy now all of a sudden which I can understand I'm a pretty busy guy to, but we always seemed to make timefor each other, but lately in the back of my mind I think she might be cheating on me, I don't know, buti have no idea why, and each day I just feel stronger and stronger about that, well I figure I can hold out for the next two months but I really don't know, like I keep myself busy all day, I spend a good few hrs at the gym, hiking, reading, but it just doesntseem to fill the void of my need to want to hear from her, like, I get this feeling down inside of me that when I hear her voice it makes everything feel so much better, and makes my sometime of a life just a little bit better but I guess that's it for now, this is my first time in my entire life posting anything on the internet, and I don't know what I'm going to expect back as a response but whatever its worth a shot.

[CroCivic91]

Well, if all it takes is the sound of her voice, try recording her saying something funny (or something) on your cell phone and play it for yourself when you feel like you want to hear her.

Lousy advice, but better than nothing :)

[Wildcat21]

Quit putting these gals on a pedestal. They don't deserve it - ever. They are part of your life NOT your life.

[Wildcat21]

Calling all the time? BAD for business.

Also - you can't express how you feel - she says "I love you" - you say "I know"

See - you QUIT being a challenge and surrender to her. Woman HATE THIS!! Hate it!!

[mike145k]

Well what I am hearing is you don't trust her and your thinking she has another boyfriend if you want to find out ask her point blank remember its for your best interest.