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    actressgonecrazy13 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 20, 2007, 04:18 PM
    Love Triangle
    I have a boyfriend who I love sooo friken much and he loves me a lot too. But his friend likes me as much too and I like his friend also... and I have to make a decision on who to choose.


    Some of my friends don't like my boyfriend because they think I could do better, he treats me badly, and he's no good for me. But I love him a lot and I can never think of breaking up!

    But his friend... my friends think I should go out with him because he's better for me. He tells me that I'm the love of his life and that he loves me so much.. but he leaves to go to New York for a year.


    So I don't know what to do and I have to choose between them I'm guessing on Friday at a group thing at the movies..

    PLEASE I NEED SOO MUCH HELP RIGHT NOW!!
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    Jun 21, 2007, 07:22 PM
    Since you appear to be emotionally cheating on both of them, why not let both of them go and figure out why your not strong enough to care for one person and need the attention of more then one person to make you happy.
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    Jun 21, 2007, 08:15 PM
    I agree, you need to leave both, a person who treats you badly is not choice at all, and I doubt his friend would be much better in the long run.

    Plus, if you really really loved him, there would be not question, so just by asking, it shows you don't really love him that much
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    Jun 21, 2007, 09:44 PM
    Hello.

    First thing is you need to dump your Boyfriend if he doesn't treat you like the special lady you are. Any time a Man doesn't treat you the right way he is wrong for you, it's that simple. In a relationship problems don't work out unless both people want them to and if he doesn't treat you right he isn't going to want to change no matter what he tells you to get what he wants.

    His friend might be a nice guy so give him a chance as a friend at least until you get over your boyfriend. He is leaving so a long term relationship is going to be hard but a fantastic friendship that can late rin life turn into a relationship is very possible.

    Good Luck
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    Jun 22, 2007, 06:31 AM
    You need to leave both of them alone an be single for a while.

    You're too confused and you need to make some things clear for yourself.
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