[Justice_love21]

I just got out of a relationship where I was cheated on.. I have been Single For a month and I have been hanging out with just about everyone. Haven't had sex since My ex dumped me.. Or right after with him.. I have been hanging out with this Friend of mine, who I've know Since High school. He is a Total Sweet heart.. He also Respects me, I know a lot of people normally say most men don't, but he does.. I just am lost in thought and Not sure if I am ready to date, let alone, sleep with him or anyone else.. What do think?

[huno]

If you really wanted to date him, you'd do it without needing to ask. You may or may not be ready to date in general, but you don't seem all that enthusiastic about dating your friend. I wouldn't do it. Just wait until the time that you are absolutely sure; then, you'll be ready.

[talaniman]

Dating is just two people having fun, no strings so, have fun and do what you want, when your ready.

[shygrneyzs]

Hanging out with him is not sleeping with him. Enjoying his company does not equate to being in a relationship. I don't think you are ready for a relationship just yet and definitely not a sexual one. You need some time to get back on track, enjoy being single, and taking part of all the activities you want. Without the being in a "relationship".

Tal is right, when you are ready, then you can make decisions. Just do not mistake friendship for love or try and put love where it is not. Just take it easy now and give yourself some time to breathe.