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    Mishe Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 12, 2007, 01:41 PM
    Getting married
    I will be getting married next June. I love him very much and we have been dating for five years and have a two year old. We have not broke up in the five years of dating nor have him or I cheated. We first started with living two hours away from one other and then I finished college. I moved where he was we got a place and our daughter was 1 years old when he finished college. He got a job working from home and I got a job outside of home... our life is prefect! Now we have decided to get married. This is great but I have one problem.

    His ex-girlfriend keeps coming around his mother comes over to his grandmother house to visit. We go there every other weekend and his mother invites her there . His mother calls her and ask her to come and do his hair... he has long hair. They were in a long relationship in high school. But a car accident put him in a wheel chair and she walk away from him. And I met him and I have been loving him from the day I met him, and I still do. She do not love him and I cannot figure out what is going on between they.

    PLEASE HELP ME WITH THIS, I THINK HIS MOTHER WANTS THEM BACK TOGETHER! HOW DO KNOW IF HE DOES NOT WANT TO BE WITH HER? HOW DO I GET HER OUT OF OUR LIFE? HOW CAN I TELL IF HE STILL LOVES HER?
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    Jun 12, 2007, 01:52 PM
    You have got to be honest with him. Honesty is what makes a relationship last. Tell him that you aren't comfortable with his ex being around all the time. If he really loves you he will understand. He won't let you be in a situation you aren't comfortable with. And I don't think there is anything wrong with you not being comfortable with this situation!
    As for his mother... there isn't anything you can really do about that. She knows what she is doing and shame on her for that. If it comes down to it you and your future husband might not be able to go over for weekends. He can explain to his mother why together the two of you made this decision and see how she reacts to it.
    I challenge you to talk to your fiancé first. Let me know how it goes.
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    kapooktung1 Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 12, 2007, 02:35 PM
    Don't worry you are getting married
    He will married with the person who he love that should be you
    His mother can not do anything if he love you!! Even his ex-girlfriend. Good lock
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