[Bookieanna]

I need to cope being with out her, how it's the hardest thing I have ever do help me

[chippers]

Can you give a little more info as to who "she". Afriend, grandmother? Then we might be able to answer better to help you cope.

[RickB]

I need to cope being with out her, how its the hardest thing i have ever do help me

Going threw the same thing you are right now. Id say get a hobby to take your mind off her somewhat. Go to the gym or just workout. GET SLEEP, least try to and not stay up all night thinking about it. It will get easier as the days go by. Something's u can't help. I don't know what happened with you both but I'm sure someone will help u.

[Jiser]

You don't need anyone!

How do you cope?

1) You concentrate on yourself, your friends, your family
2) Laugh - rent out some comedy's, go do fun things
3) Keep yourself busy
4) Join a gym or try a new sport
5) Meet new people
6) If anyone invites you out to do anything - DO IT! You never know what experiences you could get or who you could meet. Ive said yes to practically everything and I don't regret anything I ve done since my break up - IN fact I've never had as much fun in my life !
7) Time will heal your wounds, your scars will be there to remind you of what you want in the future
8) Whatever doesn't kill you will make you stronger
9) Ever wanted to do something in your life? Feel the fear, DO IT! Nows the time.
10) Your friends will be your back bone, keep with them :)
11) Don't mope around your home please!
12) Box away all memories of your past. Refresh your life! Try new routes to work for instance, try changing your room around, anything to create tHE NEW YOU!
13) Music is great! Kind of makes you realize your not the only one who's had a broken heart.
14) The best revenge is to be happy in yourself
15) NO CONTACT!! Block her completely until you are ready to see her a friend or nothing more.!