Originally Posted by
rrigutto
I mean I am told just recently that I was too good for this person she didn't deserve me because I was a great guy..HUH?....I asked her, if I was a "bad boy" would that make a difference? No answer was replied.
Well I'm not a girl but I can answer this:
In answer to your query re: your being too good for her, that is a crock of sh!t. You better develop a taste for it now because girls serve this kind of crap all the time. No guy is "too good" for a girl--what she's trying to tell you is she wouldn't sleep with you if you were the last man on earth and there were no more batteries.
Now, about bad boys. Simply, women like 'bad boys' (particularly when they're young) because women are naturally attracted to masculinity.
Bad boys, who are ruled and driven by testosterone (and beer) appear very masculine... almost to the point of being self-destructive (and oftentimes, it is).
Young girls love this because this is what nature calls for--an attraction to dominant males. It's no different with humans than it is with dogs, birds, chimps, whales and dragons. However, whereas most animals in the wild depend predominantly on size and strength, humans actually have made progress based on intelligence and utility.
The problem, however, is that those men who are intelligent are perceived to be the
least masculine; therefore they are rejected by young females who would prefer the company of males whose immediate ancestors struggled with the concept of the wheel (or, as they called it, "them thar roundy things what make mah truck go a-vroom-vroom").
So young women, being as naïve and ignorant of the world as they are, are quick to choose the most masculine men. What they don't realize is that these men, also primitive and short-sighted in their ways, are out to do the deed with as many females as they possibly can--also a trait of the animal kingdom.
Girls, after taking it in the @ss some several hundred times, slowly come to realize that they are treated like crap by these males and so they begin to train themselves to ignore their inherently natural, yet flawed, desires for a hyper-masculine partner. It takes a while (usually by the time they've hit 30, they're just about fully cured... younger for less industrialized nations), but girls do eventually outgrow the bad boy and indeed
settle (note the italics) for a guy who is most likely to promote intelligent, mature offspring.
I emphasize the term, "settle," as it is NOT a nice guy a girl wants--not then, not now, not ever. What she
wants is a bad boy who's bad to everyone BUT her. Some girls do take their chances with these guys in the hopes that she can change them. Most of these girls end up alone with 4 children living in a cramped apartment or a trailer.
Unfortunately, this problem is exacerbated by the rate at which these primitive bad boys breed. As women are quickly coaxed into bed or marriage by these men, they tend to produce offspring an estimated 3 or 4 times more often than the civilized male (if he manages to engage in intercourse at all!).
That is, for every baby born into a healthy, loving family, there are 4 born to fathers who care more about their football team than why his wife is depressed and on the bottle.
These 4 children, knowing only the life of the damned, grow up to be either the bad boys that fathered them, or the ignorant naïve girls who mothered them. And so the cycle continues, in perpetuity, until the end of the human race (scheduled to end around 2074... mark your calendars, people).
Your job? To
act like a bad boy around girls, but actually be a decent guy. Don't act smart around women. Use small words. Make sure none of the words you use are in the SAT, the ACT, or the GRE. Grab a beer can, crush it on your head, and yell at the top of your lungs. Whenever possible, drive like a maniac; if a girl is in the passenger's seat, drive like a maniac, grab her breast and claim you were actually trying to shift gears. If a girl asks you a question, shrug. If she asks how you are, shrug. If she asks to sleep with you, shrug.
These things will
guarantee you get laid, or your money back. Good luck!