[gems087]

OK so towards the beginning of the year I broke up with my fiancée, we'd been together 4 years, a couple of months later in July he unfortunately passed away in a motorcycle accident. The night it happened, I was out for a quiet drink with a friend, who didn't know and had never met my ex, for some reason we had a really long conversation about him which was pretty unusual, and for some unknown reason my friends car alarm was going off randomly all night, it wasn't until a lot later that night I heard the news from a family member. This got me starting to think, is he haunting me? Some other weird unexplainable stuff has happened too and yeah I know I'm making myself slightly paranoid but I can't help myself from wondering if there's any truth in this??

[Fr_Chuck]

Most likely no, often we can make and match things that happen. Do you know how many car alarms just go off, live in an apartment complex and you will know that answer. We can make a lot of things all match what we may want it to.

[s_cianci]

I agree with Fr. Chuck. It's possible to associate all kinds of stimuli with totally unrelated events. In fact, that's the actual definition of superstition.

[gems087]

I totally understand what your saying, I've said it to myself a thousand times over, and yeah I am pretty superstitious, but my friend is the total opposite, and he was the 1 that brought it up, he said something was up that night because it wasn't normal, yeah car alarms randomly go off, but it wasn't something that had happened with his car before, and hasn't since but was going off all night for some reason

[ithinkmyhouseishaunted]

I think he is just trying to tell you he misses you my house is haunted but I learned to live with it all the houses I've lived I are haunted so just learn to live with it just on other thing if you want to contact him DO NOT USE A WEEGI BOARD it will bring bad spirits.

[gems087]

Mmm maybe I don't know, it was on the night he died, so I think he was just trying to say something bad had happened, how would I go about contacting him? I'm not sure I want to, but I have no idea about these things! Lol

[Meghan_sees_people13]

I VERY highly doubt its your ex. Some punk what problebly trying to break into his car a couple times or some mouron was leaning on it and this car alarm went off.

[sammy12319]

See a priest and pray for an answer...