My best guy friend? Is it going to work?
Hi!
I've been friends with a guy for 1yr and 4mnths now.. We started being friends, because he went through a difficult breakup and me too, so we helped each other.. since then we've become BEST BEST friends. We are totally comfortable with each other. We started kissing and it was just kind of as friends, then suddenly this yr things changed and emotions kicked in..
Now he says that he's confused and that when he's with me he's happy, but when I'm not there he doesn't know what he wants. I talked about it with him and told him that his messing with me cause I want a relationship. He was in tears and told my best friend that he would die without me..
I told him we shouldn't be friends anymore. So that he could realise if I'm what he wants or not.. Was really really hard and we were both in tears. I really know he cares for my DEEPLY. I just can't go on like this.. I told him to phone if he made up his mind, but I think he would just wollow in his sadness and not phone, cause he thinks that's the best for me and that he doesn't deserve me. He doesn't want to hurt me..
I don't know what to do, can we ever be just friends or a couple? Should I keep on fighting for him? Did I make the right decision?
Please help..
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