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    Sep 4, 2012, 06:38 PM
    My fiancé signing birth certificate
    Im not sure the father (no negative comments please) who he is. One possibility is a drug user and I have a picture he put on fb using needles. My current fiancé I was going to let him sign the birth certificate and send it off. He's been with me before she was born n takes care of her. THe drug user says he will take me to court and is trying to get money. My question is can he take me if I let my fiancé sign it and how much trouble would I get in if he can take me? State of ar
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    Sep 4, 2012, 06:40 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Confusedlostmom View Post
    Im not sure the father (no neg comments please) who he is. One possibility is a drug user and I have a picture he put on fb using needles. My current fiancé I was goin to let him sign the birth certificate and send it off. He's been with me before she was born n takes care of her. THe drug user says he will take me to court and is trying to get money. My question is can he take me if I let my fiancé sign it and how much trouble would I get in if he can take me? State of ar

    It's a felony to file a false instrument SO you need to have DNA testing before you put someone on the birth certificate.

    I have no idea what the drug addict possible father is going to try to get money for - why would you pay him?

    What am I missing here?
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    Sep 5, 2012, 09:38 AM
    I'm not paying him he's doing tattoos to get money to take me to court. I don't want my child around a drug user. If she is his hell get visitation
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    Sep 5, 2012, 09:46 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Confusedlostmom View Post
    I'm not paying him he's doing tattoos to get money to take me to court. I don't want my child around a drug user. If she is his hell get visitation
    DNA proves paternity, not the name on the birth certificate. Again, it is a felony to file a false instrument.

    Go to Court with proof and, no, he won't get vistitation.

    The Court is going to ask if you knew he was a drug user when you were having sex with him.
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    Sep 5, 2012, 09:50 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    DNA proves paternity, not the name on the birth certificate. Again, it is a felony to file a false instrument.

    Go to Court with proof and, no, he won't get vistitation.

    The Court is going to ask if you knew he was a drug user when you were having sex with him.
    He told me he stopped and wasn't going to smoke weed anymore and when I found out he did I left
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    Sep 5, 2012, 10:37 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Confusedlostmom View Post
    He told me he stopped and wasn't goin to smoke weed anymore and when I found out he did I left

    You posted that he's a drug user and posed with needles for his FB photo -

    Now you say he's smoking weed?

    Is he a drug user, pot smoker, something else?

    Those are very different accusations.
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