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    Hitch21 Posts: 35, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 6, 2007, 08:33 AM
    Change in a relationship
    Do you think its possible for a man to change in the relationship? My boyfriend and I have been having some problems and he keeps telling me he is going to change and he doesn't want to lose me, he loves me, etc. But he just seems to start good and then start with the things that I don't like.
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    Sep 6, 2007, 08:36 AM
    If they say they are going to change, but then go back to the same old crap, it either means there not going to change or they're just to immature to make the change at the moment.
    That's been my experience...
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    Sep 6, 2007, 08:37 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Hitch21
    Do you think its possible for a man to change in the relationship? My bf and I have been having some problems and he keeps telling me he is going to change and he doesn't want to lose me, he loves me, and etc. But he just seems to start off good and then start with the things that I dont like.
    Yes, we can all "change."
    And change can be good. It's part of growth as an individual.
    We develop new interests and view points.
    You need to establish guidelines for yourself and your relationships.
    But you may need flexibility, you have to be able to change as well.
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    Sep 6, 2007, 08:44 AM
    Anyone can change if they want to. We can't make them change though.
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