Originally Posted by
startover22
And you call distant reletives....do you normally not? Or is this a special day to make sure you do? i guess that would be my first question. Sweets sound great, new outfits too. At what age do you stop getting and start giving?
Distance relatives, friends etc.
In this day and age it is easier with internet and Instant phone messages.:p
We try to make the giving start as young as possible.
Eid is a time to give to each other more than receive and it is also the time to celebrate the end of our fasting month.And giving gifts is not compulsory, just wishing each other on Eid counts and then there is the Eid prayer early Eid morning.
We have "zakat" giving before the Eid.
This is one of the pillars-compulsory "alms giving" for all muslims (the adults pay for the children and those they are looking after too),except the poor or orphans.
This money is collected and distributed among the needy of the whole community.