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    Nov 1, 2007, 11:38 AM
    Can not have orgasm
    I have never had an orgasm it feels like I am close but I always tense up its like I can't stand it any more and I want to and my fiancé wants me to and I feel that he is getting turned off cause he tries so hard and he says it feels like he isn't doing his job right if he can't make me have an orgasm and I don't know how to relax enough to let it go I try hard but it never happens and I want it to. I know I get right there and then I move allot and it is gone. Can you please tell me what to do so I can make myself and him happy
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    Nov 1, 2007, 03:36 PM
    Relax, keep trying and learn to let go.
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    Nov 1, 2007, 03:54 PM
    [QUOTE=queen4197]I have tried to relax and it gets to the point to where I can't stand it and then I get frustrated cause I can't continue because of the fact that at that certain point where I can't stand it I have to stop
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    Nov 1, 2007, 03:59 PM
    Try turning out the lights, maybe you don't want him to see you orgasm. Show him how you make yourself orgasm on your own, this might help next time as you will have orgasmed in front of him before then.
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    Nov 5, 2007, 08:56 PM
    I can't make myself do it either
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    Nov 5, 2007, 09:22 PM
    Find out what really turns you on, you have to discover this on your own before he can help you. It took me 3 years too to have an orgasm... my fiancé couldn't help.I had to discover it myself and then teach him how... all the best
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