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    Traz Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 8, 2006, 02:56 PM
    Doesn't like me anymore?
    The girl I'm with right now I have dated twice before, I really love her, and id do anything for her. Recently she hasn't really been acting like her self around me, she used to be pretty bubbly, always wanted to talk or do something, and we always hugged/kissed. Now she never seems to have time to do do anything, we talk for maybe half an hour instead of hours at a time, and I only kiss her 3 times in a week if I'm lucky. I've talked to her about it and she says she still has feelings and nothings wrong, am I being paranoid or is there more to it?
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    Dec 8, 2006, 03:33 PM
    "I've talked to her about it and she says she still has feelings and nothings wrong, am i being paranoid or is there more to it?"

    I don't think you're being paranoid, I think she just doesn't know how to end a relationship yet. She thinks if she ignores you, you will just go away.
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    Dec 8, 2006, 03:54 PM
    I agree with Rose... she is not as into the relationship anymore, and just may not know it yet.. or may not know how to get out of it without hurting you.

    I wish and hope we are wrong...

    There is always the possibility that she is going through some stress she doesn't feel like she can talk about. Other things may be depressing her. Just be there for her and remember not to smother her...
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    Dec 8, 2006, 04:08 PM
    After a couple of dates, maybe you moved in two fast with that love stuff. Slow down and grow up and make her laugh and have fun. Keep your lips to yourself. This girl barely knows you, except as a groppy kid.
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    Dec 8, 2006, 04:17 PM
    Ouch, the L word after 2 dates? Oooh, too much too fast!!

    Slow down, you got to like before you can love. Man, you just may have scared her away.
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    Dec 9, 2006, 04:56 PM
    She' bored with you and is pulling away so that when the break up occurs she won't feel as bad about it. She is preparing herself.
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    Feb 7, 2007, 09:06 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Traz
    The girl I'm with right now i have dated twice before, i really love her, and id do anything for her. Recently she hasn't really been acting like her self around me, she used to be pretty bubbly, always wanted to talk or do something, and we always hugged/kissed. now she never seems to have time to do do anything, we talk for maybe half an hour instead of hours at a time, and i only kiss her 3 times in a week if I'm lucky. I've talked to her about it and she says she still has feelings and nothings wrong, am i being paranoid or is there more to it?
    She's uncertain about something, she's not happy, she has doubts...
    She's hiding something?
    Get her to talk about it.
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    Apr 22, 2011, 10:34 PM
    Is'nt love a scary thing?what should I do? Am I moving to fast?man love and relationships are so complicated,but it appears we can't do without them!

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