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someonespecial · Feb 16, 2011, 04:16 PM

Ok so to make a long story short,we were one another's first love and we were together for a year and three months.We go to school together,have a lot of mutual friends and know each other for six years now.He had a crush on me a year before we started dating and later on things became serious.

After eight months he broke up with me for some very unreasonable reason ''he wasn't sure about our relationship'' only so that we would end up being together again two weeks later.After that we spent the whole summer together everything was great and in September we ended things together,as friends.

Except our friendly relationship was everything but friendly-I mean a lot of our habits that were from our relationship continued so it was like we were practically together,but we weren't-don't get me wrong we weren't kissing or anything that made me officially his girlfriend but he was always hugging me,or kissing me on the cheek calling me the names he used to as my boyfriend.

Two months later,he hooked up with this horrible girl from our school,I stopped talking to him and he was with her for a week and broke up with her because he couldn't stand being in a fight with me.Then,after a month of him being super nice since he made a huge mistake with the girl I mentioned earlier,we ended up together,but nobody knew about that,and that ended two months later because I wanted to know where things were leading and he was indesicive about the thought of being in a relationship with me again even though we were practically in a relationship all this time.

Anyway,it has been five months since we are not officially together,I know for sure that there is no other girl,and he is still acting like he used to when he was my boyfriend,and he is always there for me and would do anything.It's like he loves me and misses our relationship,and I need to know what to do to get him back.
P.S his astro sign is libra,that explains him being so indesicive

fileplumb · Feb 16, 2011, 04:45 PM

Get a life. There's plenty more boys out there - millions. With any luck you'll move away to uni and meet plenty of others

talaniman · Feb 16, 2011, 04:48 PM

How old are you both?

bubblebrain · Feb 21, 2011, 08:58 AM

I think you guys should sit down and have a long talk about your relationship. I think he probably misses you but is not sure what to do. He might have dated the other girl because he was trying to get over not being your boyfriend. I know this may sound mushy, but I think you should try it.

PricelessLuv · Feb 27, 2011, 04:50 PM

Similar story happened to me. We were together 4 almost 2 yrs broke up wit me. And led me on 4 2 more years. 2 learn that he didn't love me the way I loved him. It hurt me bad bt I'm getting over it. No need 2 waste time on a guy who isn't 4 sure if he wants 2 because deep down nside he doesn't want to be and a serious relationship. You shuld leave him alone & save your heart while you can before he breaks n2 a million pieces because trust me he will. Do what makes you happy not what you think will make a male happy.

PricelessLuv · Feb 27, 2011, 04:51 PM

Similar story happened to me. We were together 4 almost 2 yrs broke up wit me. And led me on 4 2 more years. 2 learn that he didn't love me the way I loved him. It hurt me bad bt I'm getting over it. No need 2 waste time on a guy who isn't 4 sure if he wants 2 because deep down nside he doesn't want to be and a serious relationship. You shuld leave him alone & save your heart while you can before he breaks n2 a million pieces because trust me he will. Do what makes you happy not what you think will make a male happy.