[lauraartist2002]

Hello there I'm 29 yrs old girl or lady. And there is this Boy who is 16 and he waves to me every time he see's me and smiles. And last year we had a little conversation with each other. Is this wrong to be friends or hang out with a 16 yr old boy I don't want to be a cougar :P. please help me he is too cute and I can't help it

[odinn7]

So at age 29, you need a 16 year old boyfriend? You can't find someone your own age or maybe a little closer to your age?

[Fr_Chuck]

At age 29, you should not be having sexual feelings for a 16 year old.

[Precious7]

I agree with Fr_chuck, You can be friend but not boyfriend and girlfriend, that sounds weird. But its possible to get attracted by someone! But it's the matter of our heart whether we take it to the level of reality or not.

[smoothy]

We have a name for people like that... men or women. We call them Pedophiles.

[Jake2008]

You can't help it? Really?

Leave the child alone.

[J_9]

Are you sick, twisted and perverted? Of course you can help it. This is a child!

Leave the poor boy alone.

[smoothy]

If she had a son... I bet she'd probibly think about sleeping with him too.

Why anyone would even THINK about messing with someone that can't possibley be on par with them intellectually is completely beyond understanding.

Sick is an appropriate term.

And incidently...woman under 30.....AREN'T cougars, in fact most people don't consider women under 40 at all to qualify.

[Cat1864]

Laura, a 'cougar' goes after males who are adults. This male is not. He is underage and that makes him off-limits.

I think you need to start thinking of yourself as a 'woman' instead of a 'girl'. It might help you see how inappropriate a relationship with him would be.

Since you are developing feelings for him that you shouldn't encourage, I suggest getting more involved in activities where you can meet 'too cute' males closer to your own age.

Understand that what you think you feel for this teen is probably flattery and part of you may be longing to revisit your teenage years. You can't be 16 again and he shouldn't be encouraged to try to be 29. Be an adult and wave in passing but stop thinking of making him more than a casual acquaintance.

[J_9]

You aren't a cougar. You are a pedophile.

[teacherjenn4]

One word:disgusting!

[tickle]

You don't want to be a cougar ? What do you think you are then ?

[Homegirl 50]

You need to grow up! What is wrong with you that you are even looking at a 16 year old, calling yourself a girl, Please.
Leave this child alone.

[talaniman]

If you can't help yourself, then get some help for yourself. Quickly before you do something more stupid and end up without a life, or freedom.

[tickle]

OP is calling herself a 29 year old girl or lady; I think there may be some latent development here quite seriously. Developmentally challenged.

[smoothy]

A perv is a perv in any part of the world.