Worth it or not...
Possibly I am being silly in even asking but I am having a real hard time trying to derive signs I'm getting from this girls at school. For the majority of my time in college I was in a committed relationship and now that it is over I'm out meeting more women and getting acclimated to single life, something I haven't experienced in a very long time and am getting adjusted to. Anyway, on a trip to cali a few weeks ago one of the girls we were there with randomly saw other friends of hers from school there, so we all hung out for that night, didn't talk much as me and my boys were off doing our own things but the next day while all my friends stayed an extra night I had to fly home. Somehow the group of girls from the night before were on my flight with me, so I started in on one girl and we talked to whole ride home and made plans to hang out sometime back at school. Nothing happe ned right away and I didn't feel like coming across as pushy so I backed off and played it cool, about 3 weeks after the trip we all met up at bar, and before she even had time to get drunk this girl was all over me, punching me, tugging on my shirt, messing with my hat, etc. Therefore I figured obviously there was attraction going on and next night I asked her for some sushi and saki, she couldn't go cause she had a paper to write, which was OK cause I had my own work to finish, but she came back with an invitation for some coffee and to meet up in the library to work on our stuff. So I went with it and we had a good night, about as much fun as you can have doing homework I guess, end of the night was kind of a 'hey I'l talk to you later, we'll all go do something sometime' comment, I didn't even try and make a play to kiss her goodnight or anythign like that, just wasn't the situation at the time... but I would consider that a good night but it wasn't filled with the interaction from the night before, and I didn't want to keep pushing (my first mistake I suppose). However, like I said I'm just trying to play it cool. Anyway, the question is, do I give it some time and make a play for her again to go out or do I sit back and wait for her to come to me based on the night we were all out and the obvious signals?
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