Friend Told Me He Smoked Weed, Don't Know How to React
The first thing I thought when our health teacher taught us about marijuana was "Well, I hang out with good people. I don't have to worry about this problem." So, needless to say, when one of my best friends said to me "I'm high right now," I was devastated. We were on AIM, so I couldn't judge if he was lying or not. This friend has always been kind of a jerk when we talk on AIM, and it's hard to tell when he's being serious or when he's screwing around. But, all in all, he was definitely NOT someone whom I would have exepected to get high. But I guess that's what everyone thinks before they learn the horrible truth.
Anyway, the point is I didn't know how to react, because if I tried a bunch of cliché criticism and cajoling him to stop, he would resent me and probanly do it more. He is the type of person who gets a thrill from pissing people off (and yet for some reason I'm still his friend). I couldn't say anything except that if he smoked pot I wouldn't be his friend, and that I was goinf to rat him out. He seemed fine with the idea, and was very cheerful despite how upset he knew I was. It pissed me off, but I didn't show it, because he would just become very smug and content with himself. And if he was indeed high, then it wouldn't have mattered anyway.
The only thing I can really do is ignore him, but I feel that if I do that, I won't be helping the situation. He has said in the past that he really doen't need my friendship; He has plenty of other friends. And that's what worries me the most. His other friends were the ones that got him high to begin with. If I ignore him, he might just continue to smike and drink and whatever else. I feel morally obligated to step in and try to help him, but what can I do?:confused::confused::confused:
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