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    #161

    Mar 10, 2009, 11:17 AM

    Nothing like football to take your mind off an ex... saved my Sundays for sure!!
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    #162

    Mar 10, 2009, 11:23 AM

    Exactly! After my ex broke up with me, football and hockey took over(besides the gym) I also was able to play my xbox without constant badgering from her. Now I have a girl who doesn't mind football but even play Xbox games with me. So if anyone on here has xbox live, send me a PM and maybe set up a game ha ha.
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    #163

    Mar 10, 2009, 11:28 AM

    I know Crazy, buy God of War and God of War II, you will be busy for days.
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    #164

    Mar 10, 2009, 11:45 AM
    I told her that I would give her time to think and decide what she wanted to do. This was 2 weeks ago.

    Is this long enough then? I'm not trying necessarily to hold out on her, I'm just wondering if she wanted me, then if she would have already made that choice. I know if the shoe was on the other foot and she gave me a choice then, 2 weeks would have been sufficient time for me.
    The shoe is not on the other foot, and you need to let her take her chances, by disappearing from her life.

    Anyone ever told you how many females are in the world? Your freaking over one?? Heal so you can see what's around you.

    Rome, and KC have told you what's good to do.
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    #165

    Mar 10, 2009, 11:47 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    The shoe is not on the other foot, and you need to let her take her chances, by disappearing from her life.

    Anyone ever told you how many females are in the world?? Your freaking over one??? Heal so you can see whats around you.

    Rome, and KC have told you whats good to do.
    Can you see me now?
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    #166

    Mar 10, 2009, 12:04 PM

    FU%^ ME!

    OK... sheesh! Ps... I like the cowboys! :)

    anyway... wow... its hard dudes, gals. Trying to center myself. I am going to the gym and I have to admit... ive lost like 15lbs. Since I saw her last!

    wish I could show her what I look like! ;)
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    #167

    Mar 10, 2009, 12:06 PM

    The Cowboys huh... bet you and Rome would get along great then... ;)
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    #168

    Mar 10, 2009, 12:18 PM

    God of War
    God of War
    God of War!
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    #169

    Mar 10, 2009, 02:09 PM

    All right people...

    I have a couple of email accounts. One was where we used to email each other.

    I HAVE DELETED THE ACCOUNT!

    But, she still has my general one. Anyway, slowly but surely...
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    #170

    Mar 10, 2009, 02:17 PM

    HAVE YOU PLAYED GOD OF WAR?

    I am telling you it is the best distraction ever... I forgot I had children for like two weeks...
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    #171

    Mar 10, 2009, 08:43 PM

    Da Bears!! And I live in Dallas, sheeeez!
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    #172

    Mar 11, 2009, 05:25 AM

    Wow, Tal you really like to push people's buttons ha ha. A Bears fan, in Dallas. Sheesh

    I'm glad Dallas finally got rid of T.O though, Eagles will still trump Dallas this year
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    #173

    Mar 11, 2009, 05:26 AM

    T.O. is now Buffalo's problem... T.O. in that market... just doesn't fit. He is bound to reap havoc up there! Nothing else to do.
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    #174

    Mar 11, 2009, 06:27 AM

    Yeah, I agree. TO I think was great in dallas, although he caused problems... but the real problem is freaking ROMO!

    Why? You ask... BECAUSE HIS HEAD WAS NEVER IN THE GAME BECAUSE OF A WOMAN!! Jessica simpson... and such... hed be on a game and (just kidding although not really) shed call him at gametime :"honey i love you and im soooo drunk with at this party with all these men"!

    Tell me that he was at his best after hearing and dealing with that BS...

    BUT IM NOT A BITTER GUY! ;)
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    #175

    Mar 11, 2009, 06:29 AM

    The real problem in Dallas is the sorry a$$ coaching (Wade Phillips, give me a break) and the fact that Jerry Jones thinks he can just buy another championship, as if he is the Yankees. NFL doesn't work like that. He is just like Bill Snyder...
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    #176

    Mar 11, 2009, 11:57 AM

    Hi everybody!

    Update:

    I spoke to our mutual friend and get this... he said that she didn't know what to do.. or if she wants me because I never "stood up" for myself. When she was angry and cussing at me... I never cussed back!

    I never did that because I respected and love her... I could have EASILY cussed her out many times... but bit my tongue... and now she's saying that she doesn't want to dominate a man but the other way around!

    I am soooo livid. I'm going to drop off her key to our mutual friend right now and tell him to tell her "latter"...

    F&*&k her.

    I don't need that kind of woman in my life after all the things I did for her and to be sweet and all... I lll keep you posted. :>
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    #177

    Mar 11, 2009, 12:14 PM

    And then some(noticed I said some) women wonder why guys are so cold and distant to them. We have no idea what you want! Treated like a princess and then she leaves because you didn't curse at her, treat her like dog crap, she leaves saying you don't treat he well. Bullcrap
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    #178

    Mar 11, 2009, 01:13 PM

    In our haste to please, we forget who we are, and what we stand for, so we end up falling for anything they throw at us.
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    #179

    Mar 11, 2009, 02:48 PM

    Well... I did it.

    And I told our mutual friend to tell her its over. I said that I changed all my email accounts, my cell phone number and that she should be ashamed of herself for misjudging me like she did... she wanted a man. She got one. And know what?

    The man (me) left her.

    At this moment.. I have no regrets. Don't know how ill actually feel when my emotions get back in check but ill deal with those later I guess. You know the "what ifs"

    I'm very angry and disappointed in her. She knows me better than that. To say that I didn't treat her BAD enough... well, that takes the cake.

    Ill tell you what, from what I learned from her... ill never take that kind of abuse from a woman again. But at the same time, I won't change who I am... I won't disrespect or cuss at the one I love. (unless its really really bad.. :)

    Anyway, any advice out there people? Thanks for all your support. It means the world to me.
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    #180

    Mar 11, 2009, 03:48 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by crazyoverher View Post
    well...i did it.

    and i told our mutual friend to tell her its over. i said that i changed all my email accounts, my cell phone number and that she should be ashamed of herself for misjudging me like she did....she wanted a man. she got one. and know what?

    the man (me) left her.

    at this moment..i have no regrets. dont know how ill actually feel when my emotions get back in check but ill deal with those later i guess. you know the "what ifs"

    im very angry and disappointed in her. she knows me better than that. to say that i didnt treat her BAD enough...well, that takes the cake.

    ill tell you what, from what i learned from her...ill never take that kind of abuse from a woman again. but at the same time, i wont change who i am...i wont disrespect or cuss at the one i love. (unless its really really bad.. :)

    anyway, any advice out there people? thanks for all your support. it means the world to me.
    Grabb a beer, and pat yourself on the back!!

    A toast: "To your new life!"

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