How can you tell?

Jordan Christin · Feb 2, 2010, 12:37 PM

Thxs guys, and plus I am kind of nervous to ask guys if they like me so what would be the best way to do that?

talaniman · Feb 2, 2010, 12:40 PM

You don't ask them if they like you, you judge by their actions.

Romefalls19 · Feb 2, 2010, 01:11 PM

I agree with Tal, but if you really want to know. You could slip them a note with 2 check boxes with a no and a yes next to each box

Jordan Christin · Feb 5, 2010, 09:55 PM

Why does love have to be so complicated?

amicon · Feb 5, 2010, 11:02 PM

Just slow down and take your time getting to know guys,make friends-and enjoy life.

There's no rush,you don't have to be in a relationship just for the sake of being in one.

Jordan Christin · Feb 5, 2010, 11:23 PM

I know but it seems like guys r to nervous to ask me and it takes forever

talaniman · Feb 6, 2010, 09:58 AM

And your to impatient in your quest for love.

Jordan Christin · Feb 6, 2010, 07:16 PM

Your right I must take time and just love myself before I can love anyone else

amicon · Feb 7, 2010, 05:47 AM

There you go-that's the way to do it.
Good luck!

I wish · Feb 7, 2010, 06:51 AM

Yes, you need to be happy and love yourself before you can love someone else.

Relationships occurs naturally. As you get to know a person, a bond naturally forms and one things leads to the next.

Jordan Christin · Feb 27, 2010, 07:32 PM

Well, I have this ex boyfriend that I have been hanging out lately. I went over to his house and we played some video games, poked each other, and messed with each other. It was fun. But I think I am starting to fall for him or he is falling for me, he gives me that look from when we were dating. But the thing is he is dating someone that lives far away, so its like a long distance relationship. What should I do?

Cat1864 · Feb 27, 2010, 08:41 PM

Are these about the same ex: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...do-441502.html
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...ll-389022.html

For one thing, he is in a relationship whether that person is living with him or is in another country. That relationship makes him off-limits to starting anything with you.

If this is the same ex, didn't he cheat on you? Do you want to be the other woman if he cheats on his current partner?

I would suggest cooling off the 'friendship' before things get out hand and a huge mistake occurs.

amicon · Feb 28, 2010, 05:59 AM

He is with somebody else,so he is off limits.

Don't let this ex start pulling your strings again.

talaniman · Feb 28, 2010, 06:02 AM

You clearly cross the lines of good behavior and friendship, when you mess with each other.

Jordan Christin · Feb 28, 2010, 01:56 PM

Well, I think he is falling for me, the way he acts around me, like when he did when we were dating. And I know I can't fall for him and his old tricks and I won't, beside I have better things then him.

Cat1864 · Feb 28, 2010, 02:27 PM

Originally Posted by Jordan Christin

Well, i think he is falling for me, the way he acts around me, like when he did when we were dating. And i know i can't fall for him and his old tricks and i won't, beside i have better things then him.

Keep that in mind when this thought creeps back into your mind:

Originally Posted by Jordan Christin

But i think I am starting to fall for him...

Good luck.

talaniman · Feb 28, 2010, 08:36 PM

I don't think he is falling for you, but wants to keep you coming to his house so he get the benefit of a female that lets him mess with her.

If you do indeed have better going on, why are you still messing with him? Don't fool yourself young lady, as technically he is cheating on his so called long distance girlfriend, and your helping him do it.

jmjoseph · Feb 28, 2010, 08:54 PM

Originally Posted by Jordan Christin

Well, i think he is falling for me, the way he acts around me, like when he did when we were dating. And i know i can't fall for him and his old tricks and i won't, beside i have better things then him.

OK, then why this post? Then why are you hanging out with him at all? The best way to fix this "problem" is to not to contact him at all.

He cheated on you with another woman, and now you ARE the other woman.

Come on.

Jordan Christin · Mar 1, 2010, 07:44 AM

Well I went over to his house because I was home and didn't have any school. And I just lost my best friend ever and she was the closest person to me. So the another reason I went over was to hang out with someone, play some video games with someone, and when I am with it seems like that big hole just goes away and everything is right.

Cat1864 · Mar 1, 2010, 09:09 AM

Originally Posted by Jordan Christin

and when i am with it seems like that big hole just goes away and everything is right.

This should be a huge red warning sign to you that you need to keep distance between the two of you. If being with him causes everything to feel 'right', then you are in no way over him. You are giving yourself false hope that a relationship between the two of you would work out.

As we have said, he is in a relationship, playing around with you is cheating. This male seems to have a very bad habit of getting his enjoyment from whomever he wants whenever he wants regardless of who he is with. He cheated on you. Now, he is making moves to use you to cheat on someone else.

Please have more respect for yourself than to be the other woman or to become his victim again.

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