[bigbird213]

Just remember it's the person she used to be. Your better off missing the person she used to be then hating the person that she is now. That's exactly why NC is the best thing, and ignorance is bliss!

[ISneezeFunny]

My 4 year anniversary with my ex was pre-planned. It was on v-day...

So I actually had this rooftop restaurant in downtown reserved in November (it apparently sells out by december)... got a room at the westin... the works.

Well. I was more angry that I was out half a grand (pre-paid meal for the restaurant... deposit on the room at the westin gone).

Booked 3 dates that night. 5 - 8pm 8:15 - 10:30pm 11 - ?

[pol5019]

I hate online networking like Facebook, because I can still see all the things she is doing, I try and avoid it, but it seems like it keeps popping up in front of me. I most definitely hate the person she has become now. We haven't talked in, jeez like 3 weeks, so NC has been good, and not a problem

[ISneezeFunny]

Good to hear that.

Fbook and myspace are the devil. I suggest you steer clear of those.. . if anything, de-friend them.

[pol5019]

I just found out, like 2 minutes ago that she has hooked up with 6 other guys this summer

WAT THE HECKKK

[ISneezeFunny]

stay.away.from.that

click that red box with that white X.

[pol5019]

As in do what?

[ISneezeFunny]

Close it. Stay away from it. You two are broken up now, which means that it shouldn't matter to you what she does (I know it does, but... there's nothing you can do). As for now, stay away from her fbook/myspace. Do everything you can to not find out what she's up to.

Distract yourself.

[pwtnu4]

i hate online networking like facebook, because i can still see all the things she is doing, i try and avoid it, but it seems like it keeps popping up infront of me. i most definitely hate the person she has become now. we havent talked in, jeez like 3 weeks, so NC has been good, and not a problem

If you go on Facebook a lot and find it hard to stay off and don't want to defriend her... u can go to the feed settings and make it so that nothing about her pops up on your home page, and then just practice self-control and don't look at anything regarding her... I've had NC for 15 days but I've been looking at her Facebook over this time, but starting tonight I'm going to start avoiding her page... total NC!

[pol5019]

Yeah I should do that, and it seems like everything she does, pops up on my feed, so I should lower that lol

[pol5019]

sneeze, I just spent the past 2.5 hours reading your post. Wow man I reli have no idea what to say, except I envy you and how strong you were in the beginning of the breakup.

but here's an update for me,

I metioned earlier how my ex pretty much took all of the friends we have made this past year. None of them have called me at all, or made plans. I went to a few concerts the past week and I hung out with them there. The only reason why I did, was because my ex wasn't there. See the"friends" will make plans and never include me if the ex is there. But since she wasn't at the concerts, they thought it was OK to hang out with me now. Which is absolute BS and I can't stand it. So at the moment I not only am continuing my NC with my ex, but I am going to start one with my ex friends also. This is so messed up!

my best friend, has completely left me and taken my ex's side on the situation. He was the one to make the bet with her and see who can hook up with more people this summer, YEH SOME FRIEND! So I don't know how to deal with the immature people. I guess the best thing is to not talk to them at all. But they have recently made contact with me and made it a point to say they wanted to hang out more often, cause it feels like they haven't seen me all summer(bcuz they haven't!! )

my plan is to not see them for the rest of the summer, if they invite me out I'm not going, I can't stand the way they are treating me, and I can't believe I used to be friends with such a$$holes!

advice please! I really don't have a question, I just wanted to vent. Give me a break its almost 3 a.m and I have to be up in 4 hours! =[

oh and my current mood would be the Taking Back Sunday song-A Decade Under The Influence :::"To hell with you and all your friends, its on"::::

[ISneezeFunny]

Ah, it's always hard when your friends take the ex's side... I suggest you start making some new friends. Perhaps start to volunteer, join a gym, maybe a book club or some sort of a hobby place so that you can start to mingle with some new people.

I'm really sorry to hear that your friends bounced. That really stinks.

Venting here always helps.

Hope things get better. Keep your head up.

[pol5019]

thanks sneeze

I've been hanging with my old band. I've been playing the drums for about 14 years of my life, and we have been practicing, and causing mayhem in my town for the past two weeks. We have a few shows coming up so I should have a good time there.

but I'm excited for college, cause I'm going to be a freshman in 22 days(yes I'm counting) and I can't wait to surround myself with new people and start with a clean slate!!

and it helps that the college I'm going to(pennstate) was just named the no3 party school in the nation!! =]

[Romefalls19]

College is a great place to meet new people, just remember to put yourself out there. Some of your best friends are made in those 4 years(7 if your Van Wilder)

[pol5019]

Ahaha so true rome. I'm sick of this high school BS, and I think breaking up with my ex has taught me a lot. It has shown me how people act in certain situations I haven't been exposed to before, and it has also shown me that I am so ready to leave for college. My ex friends obviously are not because they are playing these stupid games with me, and I have tried to be a bigger person, but there is just no use anymore

[talaniman]

Sounds like someone has learned something here. Congrats, you have saved yourself much misery.

[Kevin_s]

ahaha so true rome. I'm sick of this high school BS, and i think breaking up with my ex has taught me a lot. it has shown me how people act in certain situations i haven't been exposed to before, and it has also shown me that i am so ready to leave for college. my ex friends obviously are not because they are playing these stupid games with me, and i have tried to be a bigger person, but there is just no use anymore

I was once told that the easiest way to find out what a person's true intentions and attitudes are is to put them into a difficult situation and see how they react. Some are cowards, some are fights, some are drama queens (or kings).

College still has it's drama, but there's always going to be people trying to bring drama into a situation to stir it up. Just let it roll off your shoulders and keep on truckin'. I've learned that it's the easiest way to do things.

[ISneezeFunny]

One thing I loved about college was... you can be a completely @sshole (and I mean @sshole in the nicest sense. Such as... not dealing with a girl's drama. If you don't feel like dealing with it, you can simply walk away) because by the next day, you can meet someone else.

[Kevin_s]

one thing I loved about college was...you can be a completely @sshole (and I mean @sshole in the nicest sense. Such as...not dealing with a girl's drama. If you don't feel like dealing with it, you can simply walk away) because by the next day, you can meet someone else.

Yeah, high school drama sucks because you're stuck being there at a specific time, but college is great because you make your own schedule, you don't always have to go to the class and you meet a better variety of well rounded people.

Plus... the chicks are SO much hotter in college, even my girlfriend agrees, and she's not even bi-sexual! Lol

[bigbird213]

Plus...the chicks are SO much hotter in college, even my girlfriend agrees, and she's not even bi-sexual! lol

Someone should go to my school... :mad:


... I'm not kidding:p