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    #141

    Feb 6, 2008, 05:40 PM
    I want her to feel like dung.
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    #142

    Feb 6, 2008, 05:44 PM
    You aren't actually confused at all. You appear to be calling it exactly right.

    For some reason you ARE attempting to give her credit she doesn't deserve. Don't YOU deserve sanity in your life?

    If not, heck, call her / text her / cuddle with / whatever... enjoy the looniness.

    If you do, then stop second-guessing and cleanly walk away. She needs your permission to get back in every time she wants, and you seem to think it's OK to let her back near. You don't REALLY think that's good for you, do you?

    Stop being so nice, firmly tell her go be someone else's nightmare, you've woken up for good. Then stop answering her in any way.

    Oh, and quit fretting about her, you will never understand her. That's actually good. It means you're allergic to crazy.
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    #143

    Feb 6, 2008, 06:06 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JohnnyP409
    What would get to her more? Telling her to F off or ignoring her all together?
    NO CONTACT whatsoever, is the way to go.
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    #144

    Feb 6, 2008, 06:14 PM
    So, I have not responded to her text or calls. Still no contact. I sign onto aim and she is online so I sign off before she can IM me. I go into gmail to read my email. I don't notice that she signed on. She messages me "Let me know if you're interested in meeting up this weekend." I hit the X and did not respond... I mean COME ON! Why is she doing this. I feel like she's purposely trying to annoy me. Like she almost knows what she is doing to me right now.

    THIS CANNOT BE NORMAL BEHAVIOR! Is it? She broke up with me, and is dating someone else.
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    Feb 6, 2008, 07:45 PM
    Whatever her motives, don't worry about it. After a few times and you don't react, she will get the message, and may be a little peeved to boot. Not your problem.
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    #146

    Feb 6, 2008, 10:35 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JohnnyP409
    THIS CANNOT BE NORMAL BEHAVIOR! Is it? She broke up with me, and is dating someone else.
    You're wrong, in the land of crazy and self-absorbed, she's perfectly normal. You don't actually feel any need to study this planet up close, do you?

    I thought not. You can block IM users, too, you know that.

    Electronic attempts to contact can be ignored. Physical attempts to contact, let her see you ROLL YOUR EYES and walk the other way.
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