[Romefalls19]

The old saying Tal, as soon as you got it, you want something else.

The whole time he wanted to tell everyone about the doctor and his ex, now he got it and is not happy.

[totallylost07]

Lol.. I decided that I wasn't going to do it. I admit that I was VERY emotional at that point. But like you guys said, I walk away and let it be and I did NOT say anything to the wife or her family.

[totallylost07]

I did not tell everyone. I had a best friend that I confined in. I told him to be quiet, he did the first time she cheated. So I thought this time would be the same.

I was really upset before, but I think it was more disappointment. I took the advice on here and did NOT spread anything! I just want to make it clear. I was emotional and wanted to mess everyone up before, but I took the advice from you guys and let it be and cool down. Which I am very glad I did. Thanks. I am happy that I did not action on those emotions.

Her sister found out but not from me. It was from the night that he was over at her apartment and her family came. Her sister knew something was up. And how the doctor was always around. I did NOT tell her sister, anything that's why I was surprised.

I was feeling down and emotional before but I told myself to give it time and not say anything. If I was looking for revenge I would have told her family and friends, and anyone that wanted to listen. I did not do that. I only talked to my best friend for advice and someone to lean on. *sigh* I was the victim in this but it is coming out as if I am vindictive when I am not at all.. . =/

I tell everyone else that NC is the way to go but I am have a battle with thinking vs. feeling. After all this was a 7 yr relationship that was like a marriage. It is hard as is, and I have other problems that I am dealing with... So please understand, I was upset at first and wanted an outlet. But like you guys said the emotions is slowly passing.


I loaned her a pretty large amount of money. I was hoping to get back. But I don't think she will pay me back so, I probably shouldn't ask.

[totallylost07]

I hope I didn't come off as a jerk or anything... I am just so mentally tired of the ordeal... I'm still ignoring her calls and emails. I am really trying at NC. Still thinking about her night and day, its hard but I'm really trying... =( Thanks again for the support...

[Ren6]

Here was the beginning...

I'm not going to sue or anything. I just want to bring it to the attention of the hospital. Such an unethical doctor, how is that good for the hospital?

Maybe this is his karma. Me telling the hospital about the situation.



... And here was the first volley...

its done.. called the hotline, and its done


Wow... I wonder what happens after this?


Geez... that's a big shocker, isn't it?


i have a problem. Now that my emotions are a little more under control. I want to really walk from this as the bigger person and just let things be.

But here is the issue, my bestfriend that has been helping me knows everything. I told him not to say anything, but we have a circle of friends. I don't want the rumors to going but I think its too late.. How do I tell them all to be quiet? It is crazy what one person can tell a bunch of other people. I understand that my bestfriend is mad for me.

How can I walk a way the bigger person when the news is starting to spread?



Wow! How the heck did that happen? Holy geebus!

her sister just called me demanding the guys address... I guess she found out..



Huh. Sister found out. That's totally amazing, isn't it?