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View Poll Results: Should children under 14 date?

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  • Sure, what's the harm?

    1 2.56%
  • They're children, no way should they be dating.

    32 82.05%
  • That's up to their parents.

    6 15.38%
  • Don't care, they're not my kids

    1 2.56%
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    #101

    Jun 5, 2010, 01:35 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    That is shameful!!
    Not just that but they glorify it by putting it on TV. Thereby making it popular and the norm.
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    #102

    Jun 5, 2010, 01:39 PM

    I would like to know what a mother who would parade her baby around like that is thinking.
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    #103

    Jun 5, 2010, 02:12 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    I would like to know what a mother who would parade her baby around like that is thinking.



    I believe most of these moms are trying to relive their childhood through their children.
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    #104

    Jun 5, 2010, 02:19 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Kitkat22 View Post
    I believe most of these moms are trying to relive their childhood through their children.
    Not just that. They are trying to BE someone through their children. Many of these moms are at the low end of the education ladder, are not very bright, read paperback romances (only) and movie/TV magazines, are often overweight, are very concerned with their hair and nails and clothes as being who they are, and can't carry on conversations about anything but superficial matters. My brother is married to one.
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    #105

    Jun 5, 2010, 02:34 PM

    Many of them also either did pageants as a child, or wanted to.

    Then there's the mom who doesn't have a daughter, so she 'turns her boys into girls.'

    And the dad, that's so flamboyant he HAS to sh!t rainbows, who makes all his daughter's clothes and does her hair and make-up because he's always been interested in pageants.

    Yes, I watched the videos. Those parents have living dolls, NOT children.
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    #106

    Jun 5, 2010, 02:47 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by hheath541 View Post
    and the dad, that's so flamboyant he HAS to sh!t rainbows, who makes all his daughter's clothes and does her hair and make-up because he's always been interested in pageants.
    Or the dad is a passive type who sits smiling vaguely on the sidelines and whose wife runs the show -- and his finances.
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    #107

    Jun 5, 2010, 03:01 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Or the dad is a passive type who sits smiling vaguely on the sidelines and whose wife runs the show -- and his finances.
    There's one of those, too. He doesn't like the revealing clothes his 7 year old wears for the pageants, but his wife sees nothing wrong with it. She also sees nothing wrong with spray tans or shaving the girl's legs.
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    #108

    Jun 5, 2010, 03:10 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by hheath541 View Post
    there's one of those, too. he doesn't like the revealing clothes his 7 year old wears for the pageants, but his wife sees nothing wrong with it. she also sees nothing wrong with spray tans or shaving the girl's legs.
    That's my brother, but not pageants -- a different venue in which Mom is enabling the daughters. If their girls were little and cute, they'd be in pageants.
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    #109

    Jun 5, 2010, 05:58 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    That's my brother, but not pageants -- a different venue in which Mom is enabling the daughters. If their girls were little and cute, they'd be in pageants.




    As long as these mothers can take home a trophy or revel in their kids accomplishments.. they don't feel it's wrong. Every time I see one of these kids on TV.. I think of little Jon Benet' Ramsey... What a horrible life that child must have led.
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    #110

    Jun 5, 2010, 06:16 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Kitkat22 View Post
    As long as these mothers can take home a trophy or revel in their kids accomplishments..they don't feel it's wrong. Every time I see one of these kids on TV..I think of little Jon Benet' Ramsey...What a horrible life that child must have led.
    Her unchecked bedwetting was only one testament to that misery.
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    #111

    Jun 5, 2010, 06:38 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Her unchecked bedwetting was only one testament to that misery.







    I don't understand parents who would allow that child to dress up like a grownup. It haunts me sometimes because it hasn't taught mothers of these little pageant girls anything. I honestly believe some mothers would sell their soul to make their child a beauty queen winner.
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    #112

    Jun 5, 2010, 07:26 PM

    WOW... just wow...

    And where I live, kids are REAL dating at 10

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