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TexasParent · Dec 4, 2008, 04:39 PM

Originally Posted by kp2171

TP... what does your avatar shirt say? curious.

the only problem ive had with taller women is if their femurs are really long, well... its hard sometimes to "match up"... im not short, but not tall... married to a shorter, but long legged woman.

The T-Shirt needs to be taken down in light of the election season is over, but it says:

GEEZER
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DINGBAT

friend4u178 · Dec 4, 2008, 04:43 PM

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Altenweg agrees: So you are a boob man M. ;)

Uuhhmmmm yes , amongst other things ;)

Alty · Dec 4, 2008, 04:45 PM

So M, and all the other men, what's your "thing" are you a boob man, arse man, leg man, personality, looks, what?

Inquiring minds want to know. :)

Be honest!

friend4u178 · Dec 4, 2008, 04:47 PM

Originally Posted by altenweg

so m, and all the other men, what's your "thing" are you a boob man, arse man, leg man, personality, looks?

Be honest!

Yes!!

Alty · Dec 4, 2008, 04:58 PM

Oh my, all of them M? Wow! :)

TexasParent · Dec 4, 2008, 05:02 PM

Well first and foremost is the woman's personality, my wife is the most beautiful woman I know and it comes from the inside; that is what attracted me to her. I've dated lots of women that were very physically attractive, but they didn't have an inner beauty that spoke to me; perhaps someone else, but not to me.

Now having said that and being that this thread is about boobs and the physical, I would consider myself a "Treasure" guy.

The "Treasure" of course (not to be crude) is a woman's genitalia. How can that be since it's not visible? Well it works like this for me.

If I see a woman with nice hips, butt, and long legs in pair of jeans cut just the right way it drives me crazy and my mind thinks about her "Treasure". Or if I see a woman in a skirt or a dress I can't help thinking about the "Treasure" that awaits under her skirt.

I might be in the minority amongst men here and you might think of me as vulgar, but you asked for honesty.

This might sound superficial, but to me I love the packaging of the "Treasure"; not so much the "Treasure" itself, but what the packaging does to draw my attention to this fantasy notion of the "Treasure" beyond my sight or grasp. The mystery is big part of it, because I find a woman much more sexy in clothing that accentuates her hips, legs, etc. than her completely naked; which takes all the mystery out of it.

Of course what arouses my curiosity to begin with is something about the persons face, whether that be the eyes, smile, kindness, youthfulness, confidence, or her personality. Once she has captured my attention through her face or some other aspect then I review the packaging of the "Treasure"... ;)

Oh... and long legs are one of the best packaging attributes... :)

friend4u178 · Dec 4, 2008, 05:07 PM

Originally Posted by Altenweg

Oh my, all of them M? Wow! :)

LOL... does that make me greedy Alty ;)

Toluca_00 · Dec 4, 2008, 05:10 PM

Hmm... I wonder how many guys who call themselves "legs" men or "hips" men are really that way for the kind of reason you mention.

I know when I was in high school, I used to argue to male friends that all the obsession with boobs and relative lack of interest in legs and hips didn't make sense to me, just from a practical standpoint... I guess for some men as they get older their tastes change though. (as a lady who does much better by societal ideals in the letter area than the former, I am a bit biased myself of course... )

Alty · Dec 4, 2008, 05:14 PM

M, greedy, no, delusional, maybe. ;) Kidding. There are women who have it all. :)

I am a women, and even though you boys didn't ask, I'll tell you what turns me on the most about a guy.

There are many things, but looks and a big "package" don't enter the picture. Sure, it's nice if he has it all, but those two are at the bottom of my list.

I like a guy that can make me laugh, think, cry, a man that makes baby noises at a dog. I like a guy that can open a jar of jam but isn't defensive when I do it. I like a guy who believes that women can do anything a man can. I like a guy that accepts me for who and what I am and doesn't dredge up the past that I can't change. In other words, I like my hubby. ;)

I have to say that your "fetish" isn't as abnormal as you think TP. A lot of guys like a bit of mystery and prefer to imagine what's under the clothes then seeing a girl naked.

I feel the same way about a guy in a nice pair of jeans. Yummy! :)

friend4u178 · Dec 4, 2008, 05:16 PM

Well I didn't mean they were all essential Alty , just that I liked all of them ;)

TexasParent · Dec 4, 2008, 05:17 PM

Originally Posted by Toluca_00

Hmm... I wonder how many guys who call themselves "legs" men or "hips" men are really that way for the kind of reason you mention.

I know when I was in high school, I used to argue to male friends that all the obsession with boobs and relative lack of interest in legs and hips didn't make sense to me, just from a practical standpoint... I guess for some men as they get older their tastes change though. (as a lady who does much better by societal ideals in the letter area than the former, I am a bit biased myself of course...)

I've always been a "Treasure" guy, but when I was in my early teens there was more of an interest in boobs, largely I think because they were relatively new on the girls; but as I said on a previous page in this thread "tits are for kids"... :) Now that is not to besmurch other men who have a primary interest in them, as I've matured over the years I know that my erotic triggers have expanded and/or changed from time to time and if "boobs" are the be all and end all for other guys, I can certainly understand it.

Alty · Dec 4, 2008, 05:18 PM

Well then M, if you could only have a few, which would be the most important?

Alty · Dec 4, 2008, 05:21 PM

Originally Posted by TexasParent

I've always been a "Treasure" guy, but when I was in my early teens there was more of an interest in boobs, largely I think because they were relatively new on the girls; but as I said on a previous page in this thread "tits are for kids"... :) Now that is not to besmurch other men who have a primary interest in them, as I've matured over the years I know that my erotic triggers have expanded and/or changed from time to time and if "boobs" are the be all and end all for other guys, I can certainly understand it.

Personally I've never understood the obsession some men have for boobs. Maybe it's because I own a pair. ;)

But really, lets think about this logically, and totally gross out the "boob" guys.

Boobs have a purpose, they are for feeding an infant. In fact, my hubby, who loves the boobs, was really turned off by them when I was brestfeeding the kids. It got to the point where he asked me to wear a bra during sex. I thought it was hilarious, after all, that is what boobs are for.

Really though, they're just bumps with nipples. Why the fascination?

friend4u178 · Dec 4, 2008, 05:35 PM

Originally Posted by Altenweg

Well then M, if you could only have a few, which would be the most important?

Ok I suppose the first thing that strikes me when a woman walks in the room is her face , if she has a pretty face she has my attention.

Nice legs are an eyecatcher for me too. But ultimately a good personality obviously is a must.

(AND WORLD PEACE):rolleyes:

TexasParent · Dec 4, 2008, 05:36 PM

Originally Posted by Altenweg

Personally I've never understood the obsession some men have for boobs. Maybe it's because I own a pair. ;)

But really, lets think about this logically, and totally gross out the "boob" guys.

Boobs have a purpose, they are for feeding an infant. In fact, my hubby, who loves the boobs, was really turned off by them when I was brestfeeding the kids. It got to the point where he asked me to wear a bra during sex. I thought it was hilarious, after all, that is what boobs are for.

Really though, they're just bumps with nipples. Why the fascination?

I think that some men need "boobs" to play with because their idea of what turns a woman on is based on their own self view of physical stimulation (i.e. their penis). They need something tangible, outside the body (as it were) to focus their attention on; to please a woman. I remember having this conflict with myself when I was a very young teen, but decided ( I was exposed to female genitailia at a young age ) that what I couldn't see as much had much more potential for pleasing her and pleasing me. So I understand that some men love to play with boobs thinking it is the be all and end all in pleasing a woman, and for some women they love having their boobs played with; it helps define them sexually and some report being able to orgasm from having them played with.

So I get it what "boobs" do for some men and why they are so fascinated with the female version of the penis (as it were). Now is that the only reason some guys are "boob" men, I doubt it, but since I'm not a boob guy other than I love they way they look in clothing. I can't offer much more.

:)

Alty · Dec 4, 2008, 06:02 PM

Hmmm, interesting insight into men and the way they think. Thanks boys. :)

Toluca_00 · Dec 4, 2008, 06:09 PM

TexasParent,

But nipples are very sensitive in both men and women. They can be used to turn both men and women on.

But the size of the boobs has no impact on this. And the boobs are not analogous to the penis. So, I guess your explanation still doesn't really make sense to me.

I always figured it was just pop culture. Just because boobs are what you see everywhere, and what young boys learn to focus their attention on. Brothers talk about them, magazines feature sexily posed women with visual focus on breasts.

Altenweg,
Wow, to me that's sad. I do not think all men find breasts to be a turnoff when they are feeding infants.

Alty · Dec 4, 2008, 06:15 PM

Altenweg,
Wow, to me that's sad. I do not think all men find breasts to be a turnoff when they are feeding infants.

No, not all men, and hubby is fine now that the kids are weaned (they better be weaned, they're 10 and 6! ;)) but he felt as if they weren't sexy anymore because they had a purpose all of a sudden.

I kind of get it. To see your favorite play thing being used as a source of nourishment for your own child is a bit strange.

As for the nipples and stimulus, I agree. I am one of those women that can get to orgasm by simple nipple stimulation. Heck, if my bra rubs me the wrong way it can end up being very good. Not a good thing while shopping in Walmart in December. ;)

cawjus · Dec 4, 2008, 06:24 PM

Who sais boobs are not analogous to the penis?

Alty · Dec 4, 2008, 07:05 PM

cawjus, I realize that you're new, but in order to join this site you were required to read the rules and regulations and agree to follow them.

It is against the rules to give someone a disagree for an opinion. You can only disagree with factually incorrect information.

Please follow the rules in the future.

Thank you.