[Chery]

:) I'm glad you don't use 'arnie' as a forum name. I like wildcat better, although you'd probably do better than him in politics.;)

[Wildcat21]

What's wrong with the Govenator? He has all the confidence in the world!

[letmeno]

Have to agree w/ wildcat on this one. Although myself personally, I wouldn't give in to this game, partly because I know it, and mostly because I don't have the time of day for it. Game recognizes game. But with women being driven mostly by emotions, it almost makes it an irresitable game to play. Chery, you have to admit that us women love attention, and will seek it at all cost. Wildcat, how many times have you been out to a club or bar, and saw some scantily dressed female dancing all over the place and hanging all over every guy in the club? You see it just about every time you go for a night out on the town. Although this is BAD attention, it is still attention none the less. Women like to be pursued just as much as a man does.

My firm advise would be to keep her @ arms length until she decides what the heck it is that she want's. Keep your attention span short with her. If she is not showing any signs of being intrested in you, do not show any signs of being intrested in her. Sooner than later, you will find out rather or not this is a dead end.

[Chery]

What's wrong with the Govenator? He has all the confidence in the world!

Nothing is wrong with him, typical man who does not keep any of his promises, and a darned good actor, and hmm, if I remember correctly, there was another Austrian in history... Subject closed.

[Wildcat21]

" us women love attention" - always - you're getting it. She doesn't deserve your attention right now.

Remember - with interest level early on - your interest level should always be less than theirs. Always - if you feel your level getting to high - pull back.

Yeah - those woman ARE NOT the woman you want to hang with. She'll always flirt with everyone, never grow up, and drive you crazy.

But, A lot of woman dress for other woman - they try to out do each other.

[letmeno]

"Alot of women dress for other women, try to out do each other"

They want to look better than the next woman... To get the most attention. Very true!

[Chery]

" us women love attention" - always - you're getting it. She doesn't deserve your attention right now.

Remember - with interest level early on - your interest level should always be less than theirs. Always - if you feel your level getting to high - pull back.

Yeah - those woman ARE NOT the woman you want to hang with. She'll always flirt with everyone, never grow up, and drive you crazy.

But, A lot of woman dress for other woman - they try to out do each other.

OK what do you mean 'us women' I never had to shake my rear or boobs to get attention. I got it because you guys can't see beyond your eyes, and usually have too much wax in the ears and too much testosterone between, etc, etc, etc... let's stop stereotyping each other and we'll all be better off. After all, we are here to advise and encourage, not discourage the younger generation. I'm trying to be nice, but sometimes you make my claws come out. Behave! ""Interest level should be less""" and '''pull back''' is really making my imagination go wild, Shame on you, you're making me blush... :p

[clukkes]

I think you guys/gals made me blush also

[Chery]

I think you guys/gals made me blush also

Hi there. Get used to it. Wildcat and I have a knack for doing that. It's all in humor though. A little bantering never hurt anyone and my sides are hurting as I've been laughing a lot this morning, it's 530 AM in Germany.

Have fun.

[one_life]

My ex is in her 20s and I'm sorry to say but she follows her feelings more then logic. If I were to show her lots of interest now, I'm sure she would with draw. I'm going to keep her on arms length. Not too much contact at work. I'll make her come up to me.

One thing I've noticed is that a week back or so my ex and I were talking about some of the women that moved into our dept. I mentioned to her innocently on how I talked to some of these women, she made it a point to put these women down by calling them es and other names (what does that tell you?).

If she tries to make me jealous by flirting with other guys at work, I'll just ignore it and smile. I'll instead play her game and flirt with other women at work.

Now the only contact I have with her is at work (no calls or e-mails). I have my ways of making her weak in the knees. I'm sure every time she sees me, she gets butter flys in her stomach. You can tell so much by just the body language. She might act like a tough cookie sometimes (ignoring me) but that is the time when her interest level is at all time high. When she talks to me, that is when she caves in to her interest.

You guys might be asking yourselves why? We been together for two years before and why go through all of this? I wish I could just simply tell her how I feel, but that would not work (something just tells me). It has to do with her more then myself. If I had things my way, I'd simply tell her about my feelings.